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[biggz_614]

THIS SUCKS....BADLY. ITS LIKE EVERYONE IS HOOKED UP ALL AROUND ME. I AIN'T GOT NOBODY TO CARE FOR THAT FEELS THE SAME ABOUT ME. EVERY GIRL THAT SEEM LIKE SOMEBODY I CAN HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH IS ETHER A FUCKING USER, DIGS THE ASSHOLE, OR "THINKS I'M THE SWEETEST PERSON SHE KNOWS AND A GOOD FRIEND. AND cAN'T SEE ME AS A FRIEND". COUPLE QUESTIONS.

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[jigga_k]

I am going to give you the same advice that Derek gave me. If you want a girl, you have to first show it. Be cocky, not to cocky, but cocky enough so that girls look at you and go damn hes got some self-esteem. If that doesn't work then you just need to blatently straight forward, thats how I was with Megan. The straight forwardness, if I hadn't been blatently honest with her and just straight up been like "Hey, I like you" I would hvae probably never gotten with her. So in the end, I guess, don't worry about what they think of you. If your feeling them just go for it. In Example, You are feeling Cece, go for it. Don't worry about wether or not she likes you. In the end, you might get rejected but girls are honestly flattered when a guy tells them how they feel. I know it flatters any girl I have ever dated. So what I am saying is just go for it, what you got to lose? You start out with nothing, and you come out with nothing, then you lose nothing. But if you get the girl then hey, you gained something.

I wish you luck, Blood runs

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[biggz_614]

Even Though my answers were not answered, I thank U for your concern and advise. But its more than that. strait forwardness is not fully gonna work for me in this situation. Once they get to know me it makes it seem like i'm a poser. Cause the blend of the strait-forward attitude and my mellow-passion vibe just doesn't go. which makes it seem like i'm posing half the time, which is true. Simply the trick is that I need to find myself in full. i already have most of it packed down. I guess i'm more myself when i'm not liking someone. which is a problem i've been working on forever. besides CeCe, according to heather, doesn't date black guys so their is no chance. its not just rejection i fear, its when somebody else is "chosen" over me and to and insult they use the excuses i've mentioned. hence leaving me with overwhelming emotins that take over as you've already expirence. look. just keep your eyes on my LJ and you'll see my other issue. one.