my life

[biguns_jodi]

struggling again.. i know i only post a new journal when I am really upset... but.. my life has been altered at this point to save a few relationships... i don't want to loose new friends to keep the old.... give me advice;....

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friends

[flutestarkiss]

*hugs* if you wanna talk, I'm always here. Sometimes just saying it all helps you feel beter.

Look, a friend is someone wher is there for you no matter what. You may change, be stupid, but they know the REAL you and love you. You DO NOT need to change yourself to fit different friends, and you shouldn't alter everything in your life to keep people. Do what YOU think is right. The friends who are true will be there- through dissagreements, fights, and hell.... I promise!!!!

friends part 2

[k_run2020]

I agree, friends are to do all those things. Friends are unconditional. They love you no matter what. But, in the same manner, female friends live by certain codes. Unwritten, unspoken, yes, but, however, completely well-known throughout the female gender. It's when female friends do not keep to these codes that you find out that maybe that friend isn't exactly who you thought they were. It's not right to choose between friends. I know I personally would bow out before I had to make someone choose. But, that doesn't mean that decisions, true decisions, about what you really want aren't present. The decisions are tough to make sometimes, and sometimes people get hurt, and other times you loose friends, friends who genuinely love you for everything that you are, but are too hurt to continue in the same manner. But, all of that is not only part of being a good friend, but being a grown-up as well. For the rest of your life, it's not going to be easy. Don't anyone let you think that it will be. But to find out who you are and