I actually used to have a different lj account under my regular online name, but certain situations forced me to open a new account. And for a long time on my new account, I had generic userpics because I was in essence "hiding."
Most people dont' want their coworkers, relatives, mortal enemies to stumble upon their livejournal for good reason. For a lot of people, myself included, lj needs to be a safe zone where they can feel free to express themselves. That's why all my entries are friends only.
Know what you mean, I try to stick with BathTub, but occasionally people beat me to it, so my back up is BathTubNZ, like it is here, on Ebay and Myspace.
I give up. If I'm friended by someone and I can't figure out who they are, I generally don't friend them back.
Oh, I'll take a look at their info page and their pictures, but quite often that doesn't help me at all. I understand, brother. I feel your pain. (And then I try to ignore the pain and simply give up on figuring out who the person is.)
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Most people dont' want their coworkers, relatives, mortal enemies to stumble upon their livejournal for good reason. For a lot of people, myself included, lj needs to be a safe zone where they can feel free to express themselves. That's why all my entries are friends only.
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At least my default icon is *based* off the RL me (and my RL cat)
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LJ is as anonymous as USEnet newsgroups were.
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They are tools, to be used to whatever goal that the holder of the tool desires.
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Oh, I'll take a look at their info page and their pictures, but quite often that doesn't help me at all. I understand, brother. I feel your pain. (And then I try to ignore the pain and simply give up on figuring out who the person is.)
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