Yesterday

[blayze441]

This whole thing is just frustrating and upsetting. Usually I can credit Stephen with the ability to see things from different perspectives, but right now he's being so close-minded it just makes me want to fucking punch something. *breathes in and out slowly* Honestly, I can understand why he would be upset...because he's got this fucked-up

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Now it's a control issue. Make it equal.

[drone_dragon]

Almost sounds as if the game is your way of getting away from him and giving yourself some vacation time! Young lady, he is being what most guys struggle with, perspective taking. It's normal. But the good news is, at least he's not trying to ignore you and put you aside until he really needs you. But he's suffocating you with wants and needs. You need to soften that up with your own wants and needs. Make them small things like, "I just need some time to loosen up to play sims." or "I like you but I really need some breathing time. Please do this for me."
Don't be choked when you don't have to be! Take care. And listen to Breaking Benjamin's "Rain" song, it'll make ya feel better!

Re: Now it's a control issue. Make it equal.

[blayze441]

We finally got everything worked out...as soon as we finished being pissed off with each other. We decided that basically we could do anything we want, as long as we go to bed together. Thanks for the help, though...