Well all you can do is tell him is to imagine him being in your shoes. If he says he loves you so much, well then he'll listen to what you have to say and he'll change for you on his own. If he doesn't, then that's a problem.
There is no perfect relationship. Anyone that's been in one knows that. You can get stuck with a big problem or a little problem. Some couples just have little bumps, while others have to jump hurdles. What matters is that both people aren't quitters and love each other enough to overcome anything.
Why are most "girls" so pious in this belief!funkytwangfoolNovember 15 2006, 17:32:24 UTC
That is the most ignorant thing I've heard anyone say on LJ.
If you don't think guys can change, well then you've been hanging out with little boys.
I am living proof that people can change. I used to be an selfish asshole, and now I do everything for my Sara and our future. Now is that change or what?
Re: Why are most "girls" so pious in this belief!blinkmeharder85November 15 2006, 17:57:43 UTC
Ha and why did you change?? Or lets say.. who helped you? lol I think this statement IS true in some ways though... YOU, yourself CANT change someone else... only they can change themselves IF they want to. Its just like alcoholics and smokers.. you can tell them to quit.. but they wont be able to do it unless they want to. Wouldnt you agree with that statement? So.. like those times I wanted you to change before.. you couldnt right away until you realized it WAS something you wanted to do.. for yourself if not for me.
Re: Why are most "girls" so pious in this belief!funkytwangfoolNovember 16 2006, 03:09:08 UTC
I will say this... change is like a fuel, but it needs a spark to light it on fire. Unfortunately most of us have to get the rug slipped out from under us to start anything.
Another rule - Never get to comfy! Recall your first months together!
I AM LIKE DOCTOR PHIL!! MAYBE MAURY POVICH CAN HIRE ME TO CONSOLE THE "THIS IS THE 9TH APPEARANCE I'VE MADE ON THIS SHOW... ANOTHER DADDY.. WHO'S THE FATHER" SHOW!!
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There is no perfect relationship. Anyone that's been in one knows that. You can get stuck with a big problem or a little problem. Some couples just have little bumps, while others have to jump hurdles. What matters is that both people aren't quitters and love each other enough to overcome anything.
AND THAT HAS BEEN THY WORD!
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and don't forget, guys get worse after they're married!
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If you don't think guys can change, well then you've been hanging out with little boys.
I am living proof that people can change. I used to be an selfish asshole, and now I do everything for my Sara and our future. Now is that change or what?
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Another rule - Never get to comfy! Recall your first months together!
I AM LIKE DOCTOR PHIL!! MAYBE MAURY POVICH CAN HIRE ME TO CONSOLE THE "THIS IS THE 9TH APPEARANCE I'VE MADE ON THIS SHOW... ANOTHER DADDY.. WHO'S THE FATHER" SHOW!!
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