there's always the constant truth.

[bloody_rmnc]

i just want to know what you all think about this situation.

what would you do if your boyfriend/girlfriend dug through your phone or told you not to dress a certain way. who's right and who's wrong?

rachel<33

Comments

yo its Drew

[anonymous]

come on now shortstop dont take that shit. if he dont like that move on cant let him change who you are.

Re: yo its Drew

[bloody_rmnc]

do you really think changing how i dress is changing me? in a way yes, 'cause i express my inner self through my exterior, but he thinks i dress like a whore.

rachel<33

hmmmmmm.......

[anonymous]

welp it depends the digging through the phone things shows no trust. and if theres no trust theres really no relationship and in turn you are just two people that are seeing each other. cause what you get from the relationship is 100% trust,love,and dependability(spelling?). i cant say i havnt looked through my ex's phones, but really thats why they are my ex's and not my girlfriend or wife at this point cause all trust was lost. now as for the dress a certain way thing that depends if its like a dress like this today or wear that cause you look hot than im all for it cause i know i would dress however for a day or somn if my lady asked. if its like you have to dress like this from now on that is total bullshit. dress how you like, be who you are, and never let anyone take that away from you.
fu.

Re: hmmmmmm.......

[bloody_rmnc]

you have valid points. he has trust issues. i've done nothing to have him have them towards me, should i just deal with it?

rachel<33

[anonymous]

If they told me to do so in a mature and loving fashion, I would really think they cared about me. If they forced their way upon me, then that would be selfish of them. But if they tried to see eye to eye with me first, man..there's obviously some real focus in that relationship. Good stuff.

[bloody_rmnc]

well it wasn't in a mature fashion. it was more so in a way of "you look like a slut! do you want guys looking at you like they want to fuck you?!"

rachel<33

[henshie]

Uhuumm...
Rachel, First of all-if someone (especially your boyfriend). Is your boyfriend, he should like you and accept you for who you are, and how you dress shouldn`t be of the slightest importance.Second- If he is digging through your phone that shows that he doesn`t trust you, or trying to find stuff out that you haven`t told & a relationship is generally, (for the most part) based on trust and honesty, and if there is lackthereof, it is pretty much pointless.I look through Max`s phone all the time, but its not that i`m trying to find stuff out, it`s just that i am pretty much bored. Haha but snopping and looking are two different things. & i agree with all of previously stated.& Judging is for one person and one person only, the man upstairs. NEVER let anyone try to tell you who to be or dress or whatever. Thats just stupid Rachel, to even question about.You know who you are; don`t let anyone even try attempt to change that. & Don`t be who they want you to be- be you, that`s what someone will love you the most for.Garunteed.

[bloody_rmnc]

he says that he's always had a problem with how i've dressed, is that excepting me? i don't want to make him feel uncomfortable, but at teh same time that's me being me.

rachel<33

[anonymous]

what would i do if i were in that situation? honestly, i would not tolerate such treatment and put and end to, what must be, an unhealthy relationship. i like what you do. . .so do it!

love through the wires,
Max.

[bloody_rmnc]

i know that you think my relationship is unhealthy, but that's 'cause you always see me upset. i love landon, and we do share good times, but is this normal?

you know me best, help me out.

rachel<33