thanksgiving

[blu_crying_wolf]

i hate holidays. i really do. if its not spent wondering whose house we should be at, its running inbetween them all. the actually holiday doesnt even matter

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[technomage]

Holidays can be sucky, so the thing to do is choose how to spend them. You can decide not to see your father. It sends a pretty big message, if anyone's listening. Next time (Xmas) you should pick a friend or family member who's company you cherish and go see them.

[blu_crying_wolf]

thanks for your advice. :) i'm sure it'll be much better for xmas. i tend to try and please everyone though... i guess that's a fault of mine i'm going to have to fix.

i hope things with you are going okay this holiday season. how have things been?

[technomage]

Things are good. Busy helping my daughter try and figure out what will make her happy. Being alone in Balitmore at college is not the answer. I see a change coming, I just hope it works out for her best advantage. Sometimes being young can make you short sighted - chosing friends over a career is only a good choice for a few years. She may end up back in Mississippi, but I hope she keeps at it with school.

[blu_crying_wolf]

ahh i see. well i wish all the best for you and your daughter. you're right when you say choosing friends over a career is good for a few years, and thats it. but when you're young, you dont want to think about having a career just yet. it makes you feel like you've got to grow up, and that can be scary. it does sound like a change is in the picture, but i;m sure it will work out for the best. :)