logjammin'

[bluebeard3]

ok, i look at porn, no shame in that. not obsessivley or anything, but on a more than a weekly basis, lets say. as of late i've been noticing this one video floating around - or rather a type of video, i assume all made by the same group. there always 5 or 6 videos that run the same story. 1- girl shows up for date. 2 - girl says "why don't we just

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[ulthulu]

perhaps people have been downloading it and not realizing how much it sucks

[tulipbutter]

Maybe it appeals to guys who would like to think women could use them like objects as much as guys do to women in real life? Kind of a submissive kind of thing?

[bluebeard3]

yeah, i thought of that - but it seems to me that part and parcel with most masturbation fantasy comes the part about getting to have an orgasm. you could be submissive and still get to come, but the guys who watch this fantasize specifically about NOT having an orgasm. thats what confuses me. cause, y'know - orgasms are cool. i think we can all agree on that.

[tulipbutter]

But porn is mostly designed for men to watch. Do men enjoy watching other men come? I mean, I'm sure we all can imagine what a guy in that situation would do immediately after the door slammed shut, so can we really conclude that he doesn't get an orgasm?

[bluebeard3]

maybe they get off on the utter humiliation of having a girl leave whilst fucking, and then having to sqeeze one out themself. but still. the idea of masturbation fantasy is just that - its fantastical. nobody (probably someone) beats off to porn of men beating off. thats not fantastical at all. the whole idea is to pretend something better than reality is occuring.

and its not that i particularily enjoy watching men come, but that is one of my favorate parts of the sex act. fantasizing about coming happens one way or another in most of my erotic fantasies. fantasizing about almost coming, then having to beat your dick like it owes you money....pfft.