Now, imagine having that situation of not having a home or family, but it's not because of career, it's because you just can't stay in one place, you haven't found your home, so you can't stay. That's my situation. I completely understand what you're going through, my friend, and I feel for you. Unfortunately, one thing that a friend of mine taught me that goes completely against my paradigm, is that we always say we'll be happier if we can just change one thing, and then what we change it to is making us miserable, so we say we'll be happy when that changes, and it just continues in an endless cycle until all we deal with is misery, hoping for a future happiness that will never come. What we must do, is take what we have, and force ourselves to be happy just with that, and anything else life gives us. Personally, I know that for me to be happy, I want my wife, my kids, and my home. But, as the devil's advocate that I am, I have to look at the opposite side. What if those things are all I need to be happy? What if I finally
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oh honey....prpledragnJanuary 19 2007, 08:15:06 UTC
What a pair we make. On that same day I too made a bit of a trip home. I drove 17 hours straight to come back to the place I started from, good ol California, hoping it will be the event that will be the start of all my dreams comming true. What dreams you might ask? Well for one finishing school *cough* finally *cough* and then teaching kids in prison. But honestly... while it is something I desperately want to do, and will do, part of me comming back here was the realization that there is no way I was going to find the man of my dreams in Lewiston Idaho. And if I don't find him, then I don't get a husband, no husband equals no kids, no kids equals no family. And what is it that I want more than anything? That's right a family. Here's hoping we both get what we want. More importantly, here's hoping it makes us happy.
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