Comments | bobberbikebabe: if 1 + 1 != 2; then divorce fi

bobberbikebabe

if 1 + 1 != 2; then divorce fi

Oct 19, 2009 09:42

Ah yes.... What happens when you are too geeky for your spouse. When you and your spouses puzzle pieces just do not fit no matter how hard you try... When you are told that you work too much, that you'd rather spend your time playing with computers...When you are just too different... It's called divorce. It's what my soon to be ex-husband told ( Read more... )

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hdiandrew October 19 2009, 14:44:45 UTC

My condolences - I hope you two can work through it all amicably. Give us a yell if you need some local support or temporary crash space.

bobberbikebabe October 19 2009, 17:14:12 UTC

kewl...thanks... I might take you up on that offer.

cynic13th October 19 2009, 16:58:06 UTC

I hope it all works out. I wish I could offer some sage advice, but I got nothing.
Good Luck.

bobberbikebabe October 19 2009, 17:14:32 UTC

thanks i appreciate the sentiment

beastbriskett October 19 2009, 21:14:30 UTC

Damn!
Sorry that your relationship didn't work. It sounds like you're both smart enough to know what you want isn't there, and to be honest enough to say it. Hope this means you will separate with little fuss.

bobberbikebabe October 21 2009, 02:19:17 UTC

thx. that's what we are trying to do and are doing.

bigcatfish October 20 2009, 01:47:50 UTC

I, too, wish I could offer you some useful advice. What I will do is pray that you have the strength to get through this difficult period in your life and for better things in your future. Perhaps the best advice I have is to get on your bike a go for a nice, long ride.

bobberbikebabe October 21 2009, 02:20:07 UTC

thank you. Today was the first day i went for a ride since we decided to part ways. It was not too long. But it was a good ride. :)

wardkebot October 21 2009, 00:28:30 UTC

You know, I could offer condolences, but actually I want to congratulate you. It seems as though its civil, its change that will obviously be good for both of you and I think its exciting that you get to explore other people who may indeed be on the same page as yourself.

If you ever make it out here I know a ton of really good nerds to introduce you to who would happily introduce you to more, friend and close friend alike.

Here's to your new found happiness!

bobberbikebabe October 21 2009, 02:22:53 UTC

thank you. That's exactly how we are trying to view this divorce. Yes, it is painful to break out ties, but it is necessary. We only have one life to live. Why live that life with a mate that does not fit? It just turns life into a constant struggle. We will remain friends and are being extra friendly to each other. Of course, we both hurt, but we are trying to make it as pain free as possible for each other.

Thanks! If i'm in the area, i will look you up. :)