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goodbadrthesame in bored_and_queer

hey

Mar 22, 2006 20:28

i hardly ever see anyone just post and babble about stupid crap thats goin on in their lives....i thought this was supposed to be a community for bored people to come to and maybe not be so bored anymore.....all i ever see on here is new people introducing themselves and then like thats about it ( Read more... )

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luneeboy March 22 2006, 18:13:18 UTC

Well. that's the way to be!! Let it flow. and it's nice to see people rant and rave and talk about their life's probs and stuff!.. you caught me eye and it was a good read! Best of luck to ya and your FREEDOM!! ~hugs~

Random Ranting daviepoo March 22 2006, 18:53:36 UTC

Good For you being able to let off some steam. Your situation seems far too stressful and you seem to be carrying your relationship along with your boyfriend, who is older then I am and seems to be acting like a child, I do not know the whole situation but you seem to be handling things like a rational, patient, loving adult, and he just seems to be lacking ( ... )

halogencycle March 23 2006, 00:23:02 UTC

Is the problem that he isn't looking for a job?

goodbadrthesame March 23 2006, 12:32:52 UTC

basically...yes thats the main problem simplified

goodbadrthesame March 23 2006, 12:46:29 UTC

oh yeah and i'm adding u to my friends list btw

halogencycle March 24 2006, 21:55:29 UTC

Cool. I added you to my friends list too.

meridianchild March 23 2006, 21:41:08 UTC

Hehe, well you certainly set the stage! :P

That's a really big problem because it dictates such a gigantic chunk of your life. I'd say the best solution is teach your 25 y/o bf a lesson on taking charge by advertising for getting a new roommate who has more stable income - obviously, your bf is not dependable on rent if he hasn't paid anything since Christmas.

It seems you've already taken a lot of command over your life. You've moved states, switched jobs and changed schools to be with the man that you love. You can continue to love him, obviously, but nobody can get caught up with one person so much that they drag one down, y'know? Don't let him be your burden - nor do you have to carry his burden. I think this is a great opportunity for you to shine!