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I just had a dream in which I..... Lets see I was in my backyard when I was a kid at my parents house and there were these plants that weren't growing right because in the daytime they would starve of water and at night they would flood and drown. So I devised a bin to place ( Read more... )

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I had this very peculiar dream last night. This is what happened.

I went to China with my grandpa, grandma, and father. I had joined them after spending $440 on a ticket to get there and join them. I had traveled alone to meet them. We were eating at a traditional Chinese ( Read more... )

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Sometimes I wonder if I'm ready to date again. Am I ready to build a relationship with someone and get to know someone and trust yet another man with my heart? I think so. It's been almost 9 months since I separated from Kevin. I've grown as individual more in the last 9 ( Read more... )

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I'm. Going. To. Be. An. iPad. Owner.

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So I realized a few things yesterday. One was that I'm hopelessly dependent upon my iPhone. I use it for everything. I forgot it at home yesterday and spent the whole work day without it.

First I noticed in the car in the morning I couldn't play the latest Young Money album ( Read more... )

Unless of course I talk about work. That will be friends only.

Well, I've done it. I told my parents that I'm gay. It was actually easier than I thought it would be. This past weekend I went to go visit my family, and while at home my mother asked me, "do you pursue women at all ( Read more... )

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Proposition eight is one of the worst things to have happened in recent history. As I see more and more signs in my neighborhood, I get more and more angered. When do I get to vote on your right to marry? When do I get to vote to take away your rights to create trashy little kids who run around and dart in front of my car. How about this, why don't ( Read more... )

The house I live in is cursed. When I moved in over a year and a half ago, my neighbor tore down our fence. He then came in and demanded money to rebuild it when he never asked for our permission in the first place to begin its reconstruction ( Read more... )