(Untitled)

[brettandthecity]

It seems that when we look at other relationships we judge as we do most things, on a system of things we consider "normal". Most people realize at an early age that there's really no such thing as "normal", a slippery enough concept on it's own without being applied to another idea (relationships) which have become something quite fluid

Comments

[autumncw]

Sometimes you have to do what you feel is right, even if other people are questioning it... I, just last month, moved in with my boyfriend of a couple months.

[wheresmysmokes]

Thank you thank you. And also the other reason that i am skeptical is because i lived with my boyfriend and that ended badly.

[batte_noire]

even though sometimes things turn out bad, the risk is completely worth it. marrying tom was the best decision of my life, even though many people were skeptical and even i was, a little. but, you don't know until you try. just because things turned out bad before, doesn't mean that you should limit yourself or be scared to move to the next level. it's the only way you'll know, and i'll tell you that i am more happy with tom then i have ever been before. i think the risk you're taking is well worth it! good luck brett! and give me a call (susan and heather have my #)!!! or email me your email address, the one i have doesn't work!

[solemorte]

Hey, Brett. Congratulations. I think that's very cool, and I'm happy for you - for both of you. :) Maybe I'll see you every once in while eh? You can just stop in and call me names for a while, ;) I miss it. :)