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[brian_pa]

New place. I am finished with the last place, and I will not return there.

Comments

[stacey_in_ma]

I don't expect you to answer but what did you say to Justin that caused him to leave?

Maybe now you have an idea of how he felt the other day when you disappeared for no apparent reason...

[brian_pa]

Why do you assume I said something to make him leave? I didn't. I just talked a while and then I was finished talking. He wanted to talk more, I said FINI and he walked out.

The cases are ENTIRELY different. He walked out because he is mad at me. I was gone somewhere alone for a few hours because I was annoyed with somebody else, not him. I wasn't punishing him, which is exactly what he is doing, or thinks he is doing, tonight.

[stacey_in_ma]

Why do you assume I said something to make him leave?
Well, I thought you were talking and then he decided to leave but apparently he decided to leave when you stopped talking...

The cases are ENTIRELY different. He walked out because he is mad at me. I was gone somewhere alone for a few hours because I was annoyed with somebody else, not him.You're right, the cases are different. However, Justin had no idea why you suddenly disappeared the other day. And then, when you finally reappeared you were so hostile to him, no wonder he was upset. I know Joan pushes your buttons but by not just telling Justin what happened it's now come to this, where HE'S hiding out at Kinnetik. You may not have thought you were punishing him but you said some very hurtful things to him, Brian. I know you don't like talking about this shit but sometimes you just have to, not for you but for the other person. Justin's your partner and you need to treat him like such. I know sometimes you need time to yourself but you can't just completely shut him out

[brian_pa]

I did.

[secretsolitaire]

Mmmmm, you're bringing Justin lobster linguine? Want to make a pit stop at my place? ;-)

Just wanted to pop by and say hi. Hope you and Justin have a nice evening in and that you can help him feel a little better.

[brian_pa]

To Justin, lobster linguine is a kind of foreplay. Needless to say, I DID "make him feel better." When lobster fails, dick cures most ailments.

[secretsolitaire]

Just saw your community post. My first thought was that it's probably healthy for Justin to be channeling his emotions into his art -- much safer than baiting homophobes or playing with guns! That said, I'm really glad you're starting a conversation about it because talking will help him feel better too (even if it's low on your own list of fun things to do *g*).

[justin_nyc]

Thank you for saying this. And for "talking" to Brian. Voyeurs seem to be staying clear of him lately. Not that he NEEDS that sort of attention, but I don't want people thinking he's some mean, nasty guy. He can be abrasive, but that's part of his charm. And he would do anything for me, he loves me that much, even if he rolls his eyes reading this later.

[lady_jane]

Just saw you suggest this to the light of your life:

I have some proposals I can edit, and you can do some painting. But maybe of a happier, more lightweight subject matter...sunny meadows, sparkly rainbows, pretty butterflies flitting among the flowers?

I'm completely shocked, between that and your admitting you'll dive off the deep end with Justin (Justin thought that was sweet, in a sort of romantic dual-destruction, tragic ending sort of way, but I know you meant you'd jump in to haul his tragic ass back to shore where he belongs).

Is there a puppy on the way as well?

[stacey_in_ma]

Well, no need to ask how your weekend went. I saw your post about Peter. I'm sure many of the other bitches who've actually had kids can give you much better advice

[brian_pa]

Jennifer has selective memory. She has somehow decided that little Justin was a perfect angel growing up; she's managed to forget what a pain in the ass he was. Even HE admits he was a rebellious little shit.