Listen to lady_jane, Brian -- this is not your fault, so don't waste energy beating yourself up over it. Just focus on taking care of Justin (and Peter too...sounds like he has something to tell you?). *hugs for all three of you*
Oh, no. I understand that you're angry, but I'm sure that Peter feels terrible about whatever he did. Get some sleep, remind yourself that Justin is going to be okay, and hopefully you'll feel calmer in the morning.
I'll repeat what I said before -- try to take care of Justin AND Peter. He needs you to forgive him.
I'm not saying you don't have a right to be angry but please try to calm down. You are not helping the Justin or the situation by ranting like this, though I'm glad you're doing here on your journal rather than at either of them in person.
Wow. Peter did that? That's just...wow. I don't know what to think. I'll refrain from saying more until I read the full story, whenever you guys are up to telling it.
Tell Justin we're thinking about him. And you, too.
Continue to give Justin TLC. Let him know we are thinking about him.
Edited to add: SO relieved that it was an accident! Peter was angry and upset and thoughtless, but he didn't mean to do it. I hope you'll ease off on him because I can see it is upsetting Justin, which I know you don't want to do.
I'm in trouble with what's-his-name for not answering comments. I can't even remember what post I wrote that made you sad. Everything is hunky-dory now. Except for threats from Mister Sunshine re: my unresponsiveness to our bitches. So. All better now?
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I'll repeat what I said before -- try to take care of Justin AND Peter. He needs you to forgive him.
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I know you'll take good care of him. :-)
And take care of yourself too. It wasn't your fault, Brian. Please don't blame yourself.
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All comments were shared with Justin earlier. No doubt he will be slightly more gracious than I have been. Later.
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What did Peter do, Brian?
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I'll refrain from saying more until I read the full story, whenever you guys are up to telling it.
Tell Justin we're thinking about him. And you, too.
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Edited to add: SO relieved that it was an accident! Peter was angry and upset and thoughtless, but he didn't mean to do it. I hope you'll ease off on him because I can see it is upsetting Justin, which I know you don't want to do.
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Maybe some outside help wouldn't be a bad idea.
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