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buddy_lee

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Jan 21, 2004 18:53

Well this thing no longer has a use in my live so you will not see me on it anymore ( Read more... )

Comments 18

drivelikejehu January 22 2004, 02:44:38 UTC

whatever lee..im so over this. you arent that great guy that i once thought you were. you didnt "love" me. so wait...you stopped hanging out with me because of "god"? hmm..thats not what you told me...another lie.
i thought that we were just going to be friends but even you couldnt do that. youd think that if you loved me as much as you said you did, youd be interested in knowing how i was doing. you never made an effort at all.
i knew the whole christian thing would come up and i agree..things wouldnt have worked out. we have different views on everything and your family would have never liked me either and that really bothered me.
so i guess this is goodbye. i hope you have a nice life lee. i really did love you and you did hurt me. you lied to me.

-anneliese.

White Hot Worshipper anonymous January 22 2004, 03:27:50 UTC

Christianity and God are two sad excuses that ruined what could have been a wholesome, real love ( ... )

stratovarion January 22 2004, 18:08:23 UTC

You cant be unequally yolked-a fault that I often overlook. It is the hardest thing in the world to not love someone just cause they arent a christian, but as hard as it is, they can bring you down.

Anneliese, I am not saying that you would do this or anything like that, but it can happen with anyone, at anytime.

_jerk_ January 22 2004, 20:30:51 UTC

Are you to say that if you met someone and fell in love with them, you would abandon them in the name of god?

::Jessica::

stratovarion January 22 2004, 23:37:12 UTC

I don't know, but it would be the right thing to do.

_jerk_ January 24 2004, 19:57:40 UTC

Not to attack your beliefs or anything, but I don't see how. I guess I don't think the way you do. I don't look to the sky for answers, I look from within. (And, I will admit that at times they aren't the best answers..) However, I just dont see how "the right thing" is to abandon your love for someone. I don't see how the "right thing to do" is to torture yourself so that you can spend your entire life, miserable, while you pursue "heaven".
I just don't understand the belief structure. I don't see how its okay to mentally mutilate yourself over something. Would it be what God wanted for you?...I mean...Isn't he a benevolent light, isn't he there to help you?
How does it help to go searching for a spoon when you really want a knife.
Is it really what he wants. Is it really what HE wants?
I just don't get it.
I guess I never will.

::Jessica::

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until_tomorrow January 23 2004, 01:50:48 UTC

i know how hard this must be for you lee.
im praying for you. <3
~ash

_jerk_ January 26 2004, 00:13:10 UTC

It wouldn't have been hard if he hadn't made such a rash and ridiculous decision.

drivelikejehu January 27 2004, 18:19:18 UTC

this isnt worth my time.
im not going to even read this any longer.
goodbye.

stratovarion January 27 2004, 18:26:40 UTC

I never said that YOU were bringing him down. I was saying that anybody can be brought down. Even non christians can be brought down BY CHRISTIANS who are hypocrites. Read my other stuff. I feel for you and said only nice things. Jeez, I am your friend not your enemy. I haven't said anything bad about you, EVER! I never said anyting that was aimed at you, if you took it that way, I am sorry, but there wasnt anything.