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[catamax]

Posted by Nabi...:
Sadly, I can't say anything that would help you in any way except this...Get over it. Girls come and go and if she (and her friend) is causing you trouble, then it sure as hell ain't worth it...It's just love.

I know what you mean Nabi...but this addresses the point that I want to cover...

Comments

[angelo23]

While it is valiant to want to help out someone that you love, it's often a tricky situation. It's very difficult to tell someone what they want, especially when they feel that they want something else.

Basically, if she's stubborn, you're screwed.

[msprout]

Yeah, maybe she just really wants to take a break to sort out all of her thoughts first. Just because you think she's making a mistake by not going out with you, that doesn't make it necessarily true.

Hoef, just give her some time, man!

[nabichan]

Nyo...Girls get scared easily, you gotta keep that in mind. I don't even really know how this Liz girl is like...so I can't say much...And yeah, as stupid as it is, people seem to be so much better at running away...even if nothing bad could come of actually facing the problem. This is a delicate situation...and it all depends on how this girl is...so yeah, how you plan on handling her is up to you...just remember to be careful or you may end up losing it all.

[gemmah]

as probably all of these people before that commented have covered, its really not a good idea to force someone into thinking that they are making a mistake. no offense, but in this journal entry you are coming off more as desperate than anything. keep that in mind, and as someone has already mentioned, you should give her some time to think it over. its best to have someone realize their mistakes by their own than have someone point it out. i dont know how liz will take that, but the safest way is to not point it out that shes making a mistake, that shes running away. if you do point that out to her, she will probaby deny it and get even more frustrated with you.

[_catchme]

yeah....desperate isn't good. if i were you...i'd dump her. who needs that kind of stress in life? and then if it is a mistake she'll ask for you to take her back and viola...happy endings. i know all my comments are harsh...but...i see no point in being sad. life's too short. there's bound to be some other girl out there for you who doesn't cause you ♥ache.

[myao]

Oy, very much agreed with Gemmah and Catchme...
I don't think Liz is going to budge, Jimmy -- she's only going to become more stubborn...

She's not mature enough to realize how anserine she's acting -- despite how much you plea to her, and how nice you'll be to her, I don't think she'll realize it until she's fifty years old. Liz has a lot of growing up to do if she acts like you've described to her...

;_; It'd be best if she realized how she's acting on her own -- she'd be so ashamed... As I've said before, a relationship shouldn't be like this -- Liz causes you nothing but grief, and I don't think you can see that, dear Jimmy...

[msprout]

Alas, and one of my mottos comes up:

16/17 is not 21.

Don't force her to grow up so quickly - she's still a kid, and she doesn't need to grow up just yet. You only grow up once.