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cause4effect

first day

Apr 05, 2004 11:24

so today is my first day of check in and its going good so far. i ran into a kid from my division in bootcamp so im happy cause now i know someone here. he was one of the few people i got along with in bootcamp. then we were at lunch and he tells me that he knows a kid who was at my old base for two weeks and now hes here and it turns out it this ( Read more... )

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cheshire8272msn April 5 2004, 16:08:51 UTC

Is this the girl you just broke up with or the one that you asked me to be the babies fairy godmother. Damn Tim, Youz a pimp.

jenn your weird cause4effect April 6 2004, 14:47:04 UTC

yes jenn its the girl that i wanted you to be the godmother of our daughter and yes i am a pimp. talk to terry today. hes doing well. i guess he is going to get another calling card so he can call everyone. just thought i would let you know. love ya and see you soon. and you guys better throw me a killer party. late

jenny_rambles April 6 2004, 08:06:39 UTC

Just a practical type question - are you acutally the baby's father? Becuase your name on the certificate means that if something happens (and hey - I hope it doesn't) but if it does she gets child support. And becuase you're in the military that comes right out of your pay before you ever even see it.
Then again, I think you'll also qualify for BAH becuase you'll have a dependant. But a few years of that may not equal 18 years of support.
Just a thought! Of course if you get married I wouldn't worry about any of that! :)

cause4effect April 6 2004, 14:45:04 UTC

no the kid isnt mine but in every sense of the word it is. i love my soon to be daughter more then life it self. we are planning on getting married before we put me down on the birth certificate. and yes i will get dependent bah. and thanks for the concern. we have to chat more often you have alot of insight to these things. oh hows your husband? let me know how things are. later

jenny_rambles April 7 2004, 23:54:23 UTC

Hes doing well right now - hes back home from JROTC and getting geared up to go to Iraq. Its funny - the difference between guys and girls. I get worried when I see the news, he can't wait to be out in the middle of it all.
I'm just trying to make arrangements for where I'm going to be during that year - its such a long time.
And hey - any insights I can offer I'll be glad to. Sadly we've been in long enough to see everyone get happily married - then have them divorce a year later, so I'm learning a lot from hearing the guys/girls stories through the grapevine. Luckily none of that is coming close to affecting our home though. :)
Hope to catch up with you some more later!