still here...

[celticspectre]

I'm still around.  Work stuff and wedding stuff is keeping me busy.  Or crazy.  so again, to all of those I've not been in contact with for far too long, I'm sorry.

Any last minute wedding advice from those of you who have gone through this less than one month countdown?

Comments

[celoplyr]

It sucks. But it's worth it in the end. No matter how much planning something always will go wrong and it won't matter on that day.

We just had to RSVP that we won't be there. I'm sorry but we just couldn't make it. I wish you and Joe a great day and life (so does Brian) and we totally want to see pictures.

Oh and if you need to vent/ cry/ etc. we're always here.

[ilviolin]

Don't stress yourself out too much. At this point, I'm guessing most of your planning is pretty well completed and you're just working out the final details. As the commenter before me remarked, not everything will be perfect- but this is why you have attendants. If they do their job well, you won't know the difference until after the fact.

Also, if you're having trouble getting people to RSVP, we found that it works well to send out an email informing them that the response deadline has already passed, and if they want to come, they need to let you know within (some short but manageable amount of time), or there won't be a place for them at the reception. It worked pretty well. :)