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[ch1m3r4]

I have a simple honest question. Why do women like assholes?
I don't understand it at all.
Maybe if I were an asshole I wouldn't have the problems I do.
Ehhh.. I don't think I could live with my self like that.
Ohh well..
I guess i'm shit out of luck then.

Comments

[anonymous]

Girls don't just "like assholes". Most guys are assholes. And most girls like cute guys. Cute guys are also 99% more likely to be assholes, because they can. So stop thinking being an asshole would help you out because it'll only lower you on the totem pole.

[ch1m3r4]

Wow, for one thing I have no clue who you are. So if you would enlighten me I would appreciate it. Another thing I was fucking wasted by the time I got around to making this journal entry and it's a little hazy actually doing it. And one last thing from past experience in my relationships, we'll leave out those people i'm friends with. Nearly every one of them either A.) dated an asshole before me and than broke up with me for another asshole. Or B.) ohh wait.. Only A.) exists. This excludes two people that I have dated

[jehiva]

That's a very vague way to look at it, Anonymous. The majority of girls who are attracted to assholes had abusive/neglectful fathers in their upbringing (Or ones not present at all). Many psychological analysis/tests have been done regarding this.

The "asshole" boyfriend replaces their lack of a father figure, because the boyfriend fills in, or replaces, what the father used to represent in the life of that person.

Similarly, its the same reason that males who have neglectful mothers often turn into pedophiles/violent sex crimes people. They feel they need to exact their revenge on women in general.

[jehiva]

Neglectful mothers as in putting there child in extreme circumstances, or not being there at all, that is. Not just a, little Jimmy didn't get ice cream today type neglect.

[nutt_megz]

Hey, I resent that Matt. My boyfriends weren't exactly assholes, they all were stupid dicks though.
I guess I think it sounds bad that it sounds like people without fathers need something to fill that void, when at least in my life there is no void, because I never knew anything was missing.
And there was a slight fear that you might have thought Anonymous was me, and I would hope by now you would realize that if I cared to comment I wouldn't hide who I was.
I was like, what.. 17? holy fuck.
Oh I see further down the line you continue with that whole, fatherly excuse.
I'd like to be the first case to make that false. I stopped going for guys who are assholes. Yes I haven't had a boyfriend in 2 years, but that's because the ones that spring up are assholes.
Damnit

[jehiva]

Although what I was going to post, prior to reading the comment before mine, was that while reading your post, I kept envisioning the literal asshole, as opposed to the behavioral asshole, and boy, did that provide me with a funny mental image. "Shit out of luck", oh the irony.

[jehiva]

blah blah blah, more to clog this particular entry with.

I'm sure you already know this, but it is quite meaningless to act like an asshole for the sake of getting a girl, because a relationship is supposed to be built on love, not on a sly form of abuse, which is what it comes down to, when a man treats a woman with disrespect in a relationship.

[ch1m3r4]

I know Matt. I appreciate all of the responses. I was a bit drunk and it always annoys me to watch a girl sit there and let someone do that to her no matter who. It's just the way I am. I will never change. Specially not to get a girl. I wouldn't want to date someone who was dating me because I treated her poorly. That's demeaning for both parties involved. That's why you love me so much. hehe. Not to mention as stated before I was quite wasted when I made this entry. Talk to you later.

[ch1m3r4]

Blah, yeah. I just woke up with an awful headache as well.(That'll teach me to drink more than I should.) Hopefully it will be gone by the time I wake up tomorrow afternoon. Or else no Tennis, just Cards or something.