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[charmedones2004]

I started having a little brown discharge Thursday evening, along with mild cramping. Friday morning my doc's midwife performed an u/s and discovered that my baby's heart had stopped at 8weeks, 3weeks ago. I had no warning. This is my third m/c and second missed m/c. It died only one week after my first app...my second was to be next tuesday. I had

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[love2bamommy]

I know that sorry never makes the situation go away..One of these days it will work. I feel for you, and i can't imagine what you have gone through..Please know that i am here for you, and i will do whatever is needed to help you through this.

*hugs*

[charmedones2004]

That meant a lot! Thankyou so much, sweetie

[love2bamommy]

no problem! Question, Do you think the accident had anything to do with it?

[charmedones2004]

That thought crossed my mind. The accident was about 1 weeks before the baby had died, and I had had two good u/s between the time of accident and when the baby most likely passed away.
I also thought about the ammount of progesterone in my system, or the fact I was taking a baby aspirin aday to prevent blood clots...which was what caused my first m//c (a blood clot in uterus). It is so frustrating not to know for sure. By all accounts, the midwife said it looked like the heart just stopped beating. There was no sign of trauma or bleeding inside my uterus at all. And after having two healthy pregnancies resulting in healthy children, I would think it may have been bad luck. I am so frustrated and confused! Maybe the doc will discover the cause by running a test they don't routinely run...he promised to go over my charts with a fine tooth comb...i hope so.

Re: so sorry

[charmedones2004]

Thankyou, sweetie *HUGS*!