2010 is off to a challenging start. I'm saying "challenging" because that sounds vaguely optimistic. This is my new policy statement, or like, WHATEVER: when I have LJ time, I'm using it to leave comments and give feedback and such, because let's face it, we care about what people have to say to *us* and not about what they post, right? Oh, please
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That's such a great way to describe it! I can't wait for tonight's new ep...I've just finished my requisite homework slavery for the night and am counting down the minutes...
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LOL, yeah, totally! This sounds not unlike my new philosophy with my time online... except that if I didn't reply to *this* post... hmm, i'm getting caught in a weird circular loop in my head! But no one-way communication is a FABULOUS new motto--I wholeheartedly support it. (And vow to chat back to you for I do not want to lose touch!)
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I have taken WAY too long to arrive at that resolution without feeling massively guilty about it. And the guilt -- why so stupid, self? It especially bugs with respect to my interactions with vidders...I didn't leave nearly as much vid feedback as I would have liked this year, but what I *did* do came at a much higher premium than in the past because of my crazy schedule. Given that, WHY do I still worry about people who haven't shown any interest in my work? It's like, seriously, just let it go. I think I'm *finally* there.
And vow to chat back to you for I do not want to lose touch!
I feel the same :-) And you know, no stress about speed or frequency because God knows I'm the turtle and not the hare (witness how long it took me to comment on DLZ...sloooooooow), but I value our exchanges -- maintaining things of value, LJ Priority Numero Uno!
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Yeah, it takes time! I'm the same... I look back on why I feel so drained online and it's because overall there's been this feeling that I'm just throwing energy into a black hole! Then I realised I just needed to focus and only give energy to those that gave back. So easy in theory! So hard in practice. I too had a lot of external presures last year and that's definitely made me rethink my priorities online--I just don't have time for the black hole of pointlessness any more...
And yeah, I think less guilt about frequency is also a good thing. I know personally it doesn't matter how long it is since I've heard from someone I like--if they pop up again, it's always a thrill! There's no expiry date. ;)
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AND BIG LOVE. I just caught up with this series and OH, I love it so much. Possible I might try and vid it, maybe for VVC? I want to vid more this year (but I'm very bad at maintaining even fandom-related goals, heh).
That last Seeker ep, one of the best ever for the good crack.
And Spooks, too! I really like the beginning stretch of season 3, show's getting more stylish and more like what it is now (only still a little less crazypants).
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Big Love is wonderful. It seems to fly under the radar. You should definitely vid!
When Spooks S3 started with Tom leaving, I thought, oh, sadness. But I love Adam and adore the 5/6 interfighting (or not fighting so much as plotting?) and yes, definitely more stylish! So, pleasantly surprised!
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HAHAHA. So true. We are such attention whores up in this joint.
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