please read - need advice

[cheeky_han]

mick is so sweet and all, and being so nice and he doesnt expect anythin of me and he isnt just afta a root. He likes me alot and i like him too but im scared to commit, im scared im never gonna be able to say 'well lets go out' or ill say no if he eva asks me......and i kno eventually he'll want to be bf/gf..i trust him n everything and we are do

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mmhhhh

[luvbuzz]

o now how you feel about meeting this guy's mates. i felt that way too when i had a special lady friend. its a horribly feeling, and you just wanna get it out of your head.
anyway, hurt is one of the main reasons im not going out right now. i dont just get hurt, but its also the impact that happens to me after a break-up. but maybe the other reason that you dont wanna commit is because maybe you still have a thing for alex, maybe.
but you dont have to meet mack's mates, if you guys to get together, you can just wait till you guys have fully commited to eachother, then it probably wont be much a shy thing.

well hope my information helped, byee

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Re: mmhhhh

[cheeky_han]

thaks for ur advice sweety, i spoke to him the other night and we kinda got it sorted..he said that it my decision and i dont have to etc..but u kno if i leave it it hink itll get worse. i fink its that first step thats hardest......we'll see
xooxox

hmm...

[traceofwater]

to tell you the truth I've never been in a situation like this (or any except for crushes - I'm so juvenile hahaha). But since he's ssoooooo patient it shouldn't matter so much. Unless he literally asks you to be his girlfriend then it shouldn't be a problem. Now the problem is going out with his friends. It's really tough to deal with peer pressure and personally I suggest you just keep cool if you can't get out of it and be blunt with him by saying I'm not especially comfortable with your friends. Just take it slow is all that I'm saying. It sure down't seem like he'd push you into doing somehting if you didn't want to. ttyl bye