I'm sorry that you had to go through that. Seems like we both went through similiar experiences... cept yours seem more extreme..
You need to see a doctor or a therapist so you won't try to kill yourself again... As much as you may want to... it's not a good idea... Though at times, I want to kill myself too, seeing there's no point to it all :/ I dunno... I just hope that things will go well for you... Perhaps it's best that you did let her go... You cn now heal and everything, yes...
it's going to take a lot of time to get over your ex. i think that by leaving her alone and whatnot will help in the long run. at least, that's how most of the people i know that have been in that side of a relationship have overcome it.
but don't kill yourself or anything drastic like that. i'm going to be blunt here. you claim to have few friends right now. okay, fine. but you have a family. and from the way you put it, they care. so if you killed yourself, you'd really be hurting them pretty bad. friends aren't the only people that care.
but i do hope things get better for you. chin up, paul. things will turn out okay if you can just be patient.
Paul, You need to take what you've written and print it out on some nice, white paper. Then, take a pen and write on it all the angry feelings you feel about it on the back. Then yes, you guessed it, burn it up. Take the ashes up to the top of the parking garage and let them go blowing around.
I used to do that kind of stuff when people hurt me. I think it might have started because i liked to burn things, and I liked to be meldromatic, but it did seem to help. The important part is that you think about it as you're doing it.
I think this is a good idea, too. It's actually a Japanese myth. You burn all the things that remind you of whatever happened and supposedly your pain and misery are burned away with it. Then you scatter the ashes and the memories are blown away with the wind. I don't know if it works for certain, but I do know burning stuff always helped me release stress and anger. Destroying something can be very theraputic. *nod*
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You need to see a doctor or a therapist so you won't try to kill yourself again... As much as you may want to... it's not a good idea... Though at times, I want to kill myself too, seeing there's no point to it all :/ I dunno... I just hope that things will go well for you... Perhaps it's best that you did let her go... You cn now heal and everything, yes...
Love hurts...
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but don't kill yourself or anything drastic like that. i'm going to be blunt here. you claim to have few friends right now. okay, fine. but you have a family. and from the way you put it, they care. so if you killed yourself, you'd really be hurting them pretty bad. friends aren't the only people that care.
but i do hope things get better for you. chin up, paul. things will turn out okay if you can just be patient.
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You need to take what you've written and print it out on some nice, white paper. Then, take a pen and write on it all the angry feelings you feel about it on the back. Then yes, you guessed it, burn it up. Take the ashes up to the top of the parking garage and let them go blowing around.
I used to do that kind of stuff when people hurt me. I think it might have started because i liked to burn things, and I liked to be meldromatic, but it did seem to help. The important part is that you think about it as you're doing it.
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