Comments | corky_621: Okay...

corky_621

Okay...

Oct 31, 2005 07:36

So I've got this problem. He would kill me if he knew I was letting you all know. It may not seem big to you all but its killing him. He has been very depressed about everything lately. I just cant stand to see him so angry and upset all the time. I know you all don't see it but its here. He is so upset at life and the fact that we work our asses ( Read more... )

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snigglefritz22 October 31 2005, 17:00:37 UTC

You know, sometimes the families that try too hard are the most screwed up. Like, my friend April, her mom would make her and her sister, HollyAnn, write hundreds of sentences when they didn't do a chore on time. Grounded them for no reason. Grounded meaning, in your room alone with no TV or anything for days at a time. One time, she made HollyAnn eat an entire ring of balogna because she wanted it and it was going to go bad if she didn't. Another time, April got her mom a magnet went we went to Chicago, because her mom had been telling her things like, "you don't respect me." Her mom cut up the magnet and threw it away, saying, "I want your respect, not a $2 magnet." The woman wouldn't even hug April back when April hugged her goodnight. Outwardly, they are the perfect Christian family. Inside, they're all losing their minds ( ... )

corky_621 October 31 2005, 20:15:49 UTC

you know..I try to tell him everyday how much of a diffrence he has made. His parents have his confidence so low that he doesn't beleive me. (Holding back the tears...) The day he came back into my life was the day I started to live. My life up to that point seemed useless, and there is no way to show him, besides what I have always done which is love him. I just wish something good would happen to help his confidence.

Damn Fucking Straight! hedwig61 October 31 2005, 18:55:25 UTC

Yesterday, Dan came home all upset because Jay said that he would not pay him for the cookie dough fundraiser, until our grass had been cut. Dan comes in, slams the door, sits down and starts venting! I told him to just knock it off, and do what he knows he has to do. I had already told him that morning to cut the back grass, even thought he wasn't feeling well. And, luckily, I have Jay watching my back ( ... )

Re: Damn Fucking Straight! corky_621 October 31 2005, 20:18:57 UTC

hahaha...not a hard ass...lol ;)

I just might take you up on that....I think he needs some us time.

by the way...thanks mary and kim I am so glad I have you to talk to.

Re: Damn Fucking Straight! snigglefritz22 October 31 2005, 20:47:36 UTC

The quickie thing was something that could be assumed. No need to gross me out on purpose. You are warping my fragile little mind!!

snigglefritz22 October 31 2005, 20:46:01 UTC

I'm glad you know you can talk to us.

I hope Jay is talking to someone, be it Rich or one of his other friends or you...if he's not, he obviously needs to. Maybe he also needs to talk to his parents. Do they know how he feels, or do they think they're helping? Do you even know? If he has told them, maybe they don't take him seriously...?

On a side note, have you ever had a watermelon Toostie Pop? They's goooood. ^_^

corky_621 October 31 2005, 21:43:55 UTC

He is too proud to talk like that to anyone. Shit it takes him a week to tell me why he was mad one day the week before!
He has talked to his parents, its pointless. They are to complicated to explain. Lets just say...your mom seems like a saint compaired to patty. They know, I am sure, how he feels but tells him he is over reacting.

By the way...it wasn't a quickie I was looking for. Sometimes we just need to hold each other. :p

snigglefritz22 October 31 2005, 21:47:37 UTC

.................

i.have.a.fragile.little.mind.

eetmee_kthx November 1 2005, 01:55:02 UTC

Yeah, I could live without the "quickie" reference. Really, I could've.

Yeah, but... hedwig61 November 1 2005, 13:00:58 UTC

the holding is always better after having some...you know...At least, that's how my feeble-old-mind remembers it...I'm always available to help out with babysitting...ANY TIME! I mean it...can't say it enough...

I love you guys...yeah, even Colleen & Mary, I guess... ;)

\\// LL&P

Re: Yeah, but... snigglefritz22 November 1 2005, 16:10:57 UTC

OH MY GOD.You made an ACRONYM for it??

Re: Yeah, but... corky_621 November 1 2005, 16:16:15 UTC

okay...okay...but what you have to remember is this... we still act like its our honeymoon, so we have that as much as we want, so holding and just holding would be a new experience...

sorry colleen and mary....

Re: Yeah, but... hedwig61 November 1 2005, 17:19:37 UTC

Well, it must be 'cause I'm horny as hell - but don't tell anyone!!!