i found the perfect person but they are in an abusive relationship i want to help them out of it so badly but they will hate me or think of me as a friend if i do how do i patience
the only thing you can do right now is wait. it sucks but sometimes someone in an abusive relationship doesn't realize it until they're out of it. all you can do is be supportive. i know it's hard, and i know it sucks. trust me -- i know an abusive relationship. i was in a few. i know it sucks to watch them go through this but... there will be a breaking point. just be there for them.
you love them, right? so you can accomplish that. i know it's hard to have patience, but you can do it! (cozy)
i am in a situation that i do not think will have any sort of good outcome. either i will have to disappear completely or be honest about my actions and with how i feel and have it blow up in my face
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i wish there was something i could say in response to this, other than i admire you for wanting to be honest, despite this situation. at the very least; i don't think i'd turn on you. even if we're not close, i understand. it's hard to be honest. it's hard to go through this-- so i know it sucks. i can't say if you're in the right or wrong, but, well. being honest, being upfront, about this definitely gives you some points.
so. although you're anon, i love you, ok? i know that seems silly, but you do want to be honest and that means a lot to me.
okok, that was a bad joke. (i really have been doing that, though.) that wasn't what i actually wanted to say.
it's...a little frustrating being on antidepressants. i feel so much more stable now, but i also feel much flakier and irresponsible than i used to be, and, quite frankly, that frightens me. i know it's all to make me better again, and it's definitely helping, but...i just don't know anymore.
that happened to me, actually! just stick through it. i... think it has to do with it messing with your hormones? idk, i'm not a doctor, but either way, it gets better. i know it sucks, but you can do it. ♥ it's normal to feel a little... off on antidepressants.
I joke about being "forever alone" all the time, but I don't think anyone knows that I really believe it's true. And I don't like to whine about it, but I just feel like I'm not appealing to boys, for whatever reason. :(
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i want to help them out of it so badly but they will hate me or think of me as a friend if i do
how do i patience
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you love them, right? so you can accomplish that. i know it's hard to have patience, but you can do it! (cozy)
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so. although you're anon, i love you, ok? i know that seems silly, but you do want to be honest and that means a lot to me.
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it's...a little frustrating being on antidepressants. i feel so much more stable now, but i also feel much flakier and irresponsible than i used to be, and, quite frankly, that frightens me.
i know it's all to make me better again, and it's definitely helping, but...i just don't know anymore.
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i'm really grateful for you. it's hard to put it better than that. i feel safe with you. and less alone. a lot of good things. ♥
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