The last time I told someone how I really felt, he told me he was into someone else. Then we started dating a week later and we've been together 2 1/2 years.
I guess you're not coming to Austin for SXSW this year?
How did you go about telling him? I am so confused.
I WISH I was coming out for SXSW because I could totally afford it, but I can't take the time off from school. Maybe I'll come to Austin sometime soon though....
I find it almost physically impossible NOT to tell people how I feel, romantically or otherwise. In my mind, if I keep my feelings to myself, or hide them, then I feel like I'm living a lie. And that's just not something I'm willing to do.
If feelings aren't reciprocated, *not* sharing yours isn't going to change that. But sharing them might open a door.
You never know until you try, blah blah blah. It might bring pain at first but it's nothing compared to how you'll feel if you don't say something and then question 'what if' for the next eternity.
I am a pretty honest person, but when it comes to these kinds of feelings, it's just so hard. But yes, I am feeling so strong in this particular case, that there's no way I can hold it in. It's seriously affecting my work and other areas of my life. I can feel it in my chest.
I just don't know how to go about it. I've never had to do this. Isn't that pathetic?
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I guess you're not coming to Austin for SXSW this year?
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I am so confused.
I WISH I was coming out for SXSW because I could totally afford it, but I can't take the time off from school. Maybe I'll come to Austin sometime soon though....
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If feelings aren't reciprocated, *not* sharing yours isn't going to change that. But sharing them might open a door.
You never know until you try, blah blah blah. It might bring pain at first but it's nothing compared to how you'll feel if you don't say something and then question 'what if' for the next eternity.
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I am a pretty honest person, but when it comes to these kinds of feelings, it's just so hard. But yes, I am feeling so strong in this particular case, that there's no way I can hold it in. It's seriously affecting my work and other areas of my life. I can feel it in my chest.
I just don't know how to go about it. I've never had to do this. Isn't that pathetic?
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