getting rid of a friend

[crash88]

have you ever be hurt by some one that u thought was a true friend but it ended yup they never cared about you. that friend makes you feel that you never can really trust any one and you become self confedent. and even though u want to open up to people u can't but u can. you tell them something and u think ok that was stupid their use it agaigsnt

Comments

It was in your away message...

[floatingcouch]

What I have to say, relates to the last paragraph. Mainly this; Canada rocks... But do you know what is wrong with Canada? It is not the netherlands. That is the only thing wrong with Canada. They did not produce Vermeer, or found NY.

On the other hand, Canada has Tim Hortons which is the coolest thing in the world. I dont have to ask you why you like Canada, because, this is enough of a reason for everyone, eh?

[bigchief20069]

Julia...ppl are fucked up, and itz just somethin u gotta get used to. I kno how u feel, u wanna open up to ppl and u wanna trust them, but then they end up fuckin erything up, and hurtin u, and itz ur own insecurities fault dat u can't trust anybody. I mean, i don't trust many ppl. And i sometimes question da strength of da bond btween me and some of my best friends. Like I said, ppl are fucked up, and they are gonna fuck wit u, and push ur buttons, and annoy u, and hurt u, itz human nature. So itz kinda hard to avoid. And itz hard, cuz u wanna have close friends, but if u get too attached, u might get hurt. Da only solution i have found to dat problem is to just be cautious when puttin ur trust in ur friends and even bf's, well, gf's in my case. Just be careful, don't just throw ur heart and ur trust and ur friendship to them, u kno, just kinda, let them borrow it, and one day, they will borrow it, and u will feel safe wit them havin it, and they will keep it, metaphorically speakin. U just gotta be able to read ppl and kno if they

[bluefire1089]

i wuv oo julia and im sorry for what your going through, and i understand. i mean, i probably dont understand to the exact same extent, but i know what your going through and yes it does suck...if you ever wanna talk im here, and we can watch garden state and whatever else we fucking feel like watching and eat what ever the fuck we want to...so yea im done

oh, and im not ganna say "feel better" because then your like "yea, thanks...HOW?!?!?!?! FUCK YOU FOR SAYING FEEL BETTER BUT NOT HELPING ME FEEL BETTER" i know that too
what i AM ganna say is tell me who fucked you over and i will kick him in the nuts or pull out her hair (i dont even know what gender this person is)

[azrael09]

james said it best.

life will throw alot of shit at you....

bad friends, stupid people, critical decisions, ect....

all you can do is deal with it. don't let the small shit get to you.

and about canada....don't get so defensive. everyone is entitled to their thoughts, you are entitled to yours. just tell them politely why you do and change the subject, or just change the subject. but don't lash out at people.

just relax, and try to have a little bit more faith and confidence in yourself.
im here for you julia if you need me.

[crash88]

i know that i have to deal with it i just wish they would ask and leave it there they don't need to keep shoving it in my face they can leave me along after awhile i meanthey have their opiono and i have mine but why can't they leave me only after i while i mean when push i get difensice thats the way i am because of the person i was talkin aboutin the first paragraph. i'm weak and i just can't take to much i just fall apart and i get anof shit from kids in my graded u know i don't need it for friends all the time to i mean ok but me and convocation changing doesn't work i don't know what the say.

[donbrad]

woah woah woah woah woah woah....

Que?
I'll be home tomorrow- call me if ya wanna talk.