Just to get it off my chest

[crashtestkitty]

Now, when talking about our break up, Franklyn likes to church it up and pretend it's just because we both wanted/needed a little more independence. Now, don't get me wrong, this is part of it..but the main reason I dumped his ass is because he is a filthy cyber cheating whore. He doesn't cheat on me physically. No, instead, he has a new "e-gf"

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[loving_martinis]

Wow, Randee, I am so sorry. You do not deserve treatment like that, NO one does. You put up with it for awhile because you were scared. I think a lot of women feel trapped in a relationship b/c it's what they know, so don't be angry for yourself for not breaking up with him sooner, you broke up with him which is the key thing. As for being friends, that really has to be your decision. Do you 2 still live together? I am only friends with 1 of my ex's and we don't talk as much as we used to. I couldn't stay friends with a lot of them b/c of them being so harsh breaking up or the reason for us breaking up. And I knew I would not want to know about them being with someone else. But that's me. And how dare he get annoyed at you for crying or b/c "It's not cheating, it's online". Hello? That is how YOU 2 met! That's just wrong!

Honey, hang in there, I know it's not easy.

[crashtestkitty]

Thanks Jodi :) I'm hangin in there ok. Some days are just harder than others. Luckily, no I don't live with him anymore. I moved out four months ago because 1, it was too stressful being the only one that brought in money and I thought if I moved out he'd be forced to get a job (which was true, he finally got a job last month) and 2, because I was hoping he'd appreciate me more if I weren't there constantly. It just sucks cuz I KNOW I don't deserve that treatment, but I already have issues due to my weight ya know, he just made it ten times worse. There was a time I actually beleived that he deserved to flirt with girls online because I was so unattractive and lucky that he would even touch me :P But, that's silly, I'm not letting myself get that bad again. And yea, I used to point that out to him too, that WE met online, but he said "but what i do now is just for fun, i would never do the long distance thing again" but that's bullshit. I now see that he pretty much just kept me around for a safety net, but if someone that he

[loving_martinis]

I can definitely relate to weight issues, since I met my Frank and with my Dad passing away, I've gained 15 lbs since I met Frank! I found this out 2 months ago so basically, 15lbs in 7 months. I am at the biggest point in my life. I'm trying to fix the problem and a couple of people have said I look like I lost weight but I don't feel like I have (sometimes people say that to be nice, ya know?) And I used to think "Why is Frank with me when a few of his guy friends have pointed out to him that I'm not as pretty as the other girls he used to date?" But ya know what, I'm starting to realize, I'm just me, I can try to lose weight but as long as he doesn't make me hate myself and as long as he thinks I'm beautiful and makes me feel that way, that's all that really matters. You deserve someone that makes you feel pretty. Come on, how many times did you & I walk around Philly and you got whistled at or some guy saying something gross to you lol They never said it about me, they only hit on you :-P lol A guy should appreciate a woman who

[sweetwatergurl]

Fuck that shit.

You need to cut his ass off. I'm serious. I know its hard, but physically and all forms of communications. Cut. His. Ass. Off. Don't let him continue to use you just because you're there. Does he want a friend? or does he was the stability of knowing he can still get shit that he wants.

Cut. Him. Off.

[crashtestkitty]

haha, I know I need to, especially after the way he treated me, it's just really hard. I'm gonna need some SERIOUS willpower.

[sweetwatergurl]

Yeah, but you can do it. Block him on any level that you can.