I don't think being single and still being with guys makes you a slut. But if you feel terrible afterward, don't do it! Tell them that you don't feel good about it afterward. Hopefully they'll understand :) Learn to be happy single before you can be happy in a relationship!
Your school sounds awesome. Dumbledore's Army? SWEET!!!
Congrats on weight loss, too :3 I am trying to lose weight and get healthier also... tracking my food on myfitnesspal.com, but have been having a couple bad binges recently D: high five for health!!
Thanks for the support, I really appreciate it. I'm learning to say no. I am happy single. I'm just confused I guess.
I love my school. Coming here was I think the best decision I could have made. And DA is totally great- Go Gryffindor!!!
My eating is really wonky. I won't eat, like at all one day, then I'll eat everything in sight the next. I'm working on evening it out, but I just can eat when I'm not hungry.
Hi. Hopefully it's okay to comment, I know we barely know each other, but I figured it'd be okay cause you sound like you need a friendly ear.
I don't believe you're a slut for having sex outside of a relationship, but I think that you should test the waters, and tell both of them no. I understand loving them very much, but what do you get out of it? Other then pain, and heartbreak? Feeling good in the moment doesn't make up for what follows. Remember you're your own person, and you have to first love yourself, and then love someone else. As an amazing drag queen says, "IF you can't love yourself, how the hell are you going to love someone else?"
I swear I don't mean to come off preachy, I'm not trying to be. And also, congrats! No cutting is good cutting. And weight lost is also good. Woo!
You're fine to comment. I was hoping for more comments, but thats alright.
I agree with you. I spoke to my best friend (Mark) last night. He agrees with me. So, that's sorted out for now at least. I have to talk to Tommy (my ex), but that isn't as urgent as I don't see him nearly as often. I know that I am my own person, but I do struggle with low self esteem. I'm working on it.
You don't come off preachy, you come off concerned. I appreciate that.
If my memory serves me correctly, you were interested in helping with the Lolita Panels, right?
Don't worry about the short comment. I'm ready to talk when you are. I have some thoughts about the panels, and I have a proposal for you.
If instant messaging is better for you (It is for me) I have names on yahoo, aim, and meebo. I think I'm on your facebook too.. I should be on most of the rest of the night. Or you can comment, whichever is simpler.
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Your school sounds awesome. Dumbledore's Army? SWEET!!!
Congrats on weight loss, too :3 I am trying to lose weight and get healthier also... tracking my food on myfitnesspal.com, but have been having a couple bad binges recently D: high five for health!!
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I love my school. Coming here was I think the best decision I could have made. And DA is totally great- Go Gryffindor!!!
My eating is really wonky. I won't eat, like at all one day, then I'll eat everything in sight the next. I'm working on evening it out, but I just can eat when I'm not hungry.
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I don't believe you're a slut for having sex outside of a relationship, but I think that you should test the waters, and tell both of them no. I understand loving them very much, but what do you get out of it? Other then pain, and heartbreak? Feeling good in the moment doesn't make up for what follows. Remember you're your own person, and you have to first love yourself, and then love someone else. As an amazing drag queen says, "IF you can't love yourself, how the hell are you going to love someone else?"
I swear I don't mean to come off preachy, I'm not trying to be. And also, congrats! No cutting is good cutting. And weight lost is also good. Woo!
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I agree with you. I spoke to my best friend (Mark) last night. He agrees with me. So, that's sorted out for now at least. I have to talk to Tommy (my ex), but that isn't as urgent as I don't see him nearly as often. I know that I am my own person, but I do struggle with low self esteem. I'm working on it.
You don't come off preachy, you come off concerned. I appreciate that.
If my memory serves me correctly, you were interested in helping with the Lolita Panels, right?
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Sorry the comment is short, but I'm in the middle of cooking. I promise to comment more later tonight.
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If instant messaging is better for you (It is for me)
I have names on yahoo, aim, and meebo. I think I'm on your facebook too.. I should be on most of the rest of the night.
Or you can comment, whichever is simpler.
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