Resentment

[cristalbelle]

I'm starting to resent some of Tyler's actions when it comes to helping me with Paul. He hasn't felt %100 the past 2 weeks, so I have been getting up all times with Paul. When it's only once or twice a night thats fine, but when it's three times, or like one night, up once but for three hours, it wears on me a little. I haven't felt great

Comments

[littlered36]

Being HONEST!!!!

Telling him HOW you feel and that HE needs to STEP up to the plate. You did not create this baby alone, did you?

This type of thing will very much get in the way of relationships/resentments and commitments! This is a fact and very well known statistic.

Nip it in the bud while you can and you two get on a program that works for YOU BOTH!!!!

You are NOT alone here in raising this baby and if Tyler feels you are...well then NOW is the time to call Nanny 911 or Super Nanny as you are both headed into that direction ;)

Both parents are the key to having a healthy baby, relationship and peace of mind for you all!

Good luck and I wish you the best :)

~Dana

[cristalbelle]

We did talk about it last night. He said he was joking when he asked me to let him sleep. I don't know if I believe that, but I told him how I was feeling, and he said he understood. I asked him to get up with Paul last night, and he did, with no questions or complaints which made me happy.

[blacksico]

Jase is actually feeling crummy too at the moment. He fake sleeps through Alana crying until I can get her. The only way I get through is to tell him to go somewhere else. "It just pisses me off to hear you snoring (see you sleeping) blissfully away while I'm sleep deprived."

That and I make him take one dreamfeeding so I can get more sleep.