well...

[crookedheart]

I've been working here and there, staying with a friend.

This still really really sucks. But I should have my stuff packed up and out soon. That will be better.

I think he's already starting to meet new people. and I just can't wrap my head around it.

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[jkpolk]

Bleh. :( *HUGS*

[crookedheart]

it sucks. hard, because I couldn't even imagine going on a date right now, but he signed up for an online dating thing right away.

I knew his plan was to get right back into things, but. BUT. we were together for 7 years, and we've only been broken up 3 weeks and he's already in the market.

[jkpolk]

Yeah that is kind of incomprehensible. Especially not acknowledging how it might make you feel. Like not necessarily jealousy but the whole "is he that desperate to be with someone, anyone, that I was just a placefiller all these years?"

I know that's not necessarily what you're feeling but it's how I'd feel.

[crookedheart]

or am I just that forgettable/easy to get over/ horrible that it's easy to move on.

but yah, that's it.

ugh.

[murmbeetle]

wull, there are different ways of dealing with a breakup, i guess. i think taking time out & figuring out who you are & where you're at now is much healthier than trying to put a band-aid on your singleness... but i know how watching yourself be replaced feels, too.

*hug*

[pushingthesky]

Oh Renita, I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through this. I hope you hang in there and are doing alright (as well as you can be); And for the record, you're anything but forgettable. :-)

Take care of yourself, okay?

[shinyredtype]

:bigbighugs:

You are not so easily replaceable.

[dacro]

What Kat said.

You're an amazing woman. We're with you no matter what the future holds. *hugs*
Also, you know you're always welcome if you come home and need a quiet place to recharge.

[pomma_penses]

I've been the one doing the replacing, ages ago. University time. And it's not that I loved him any less despite our breakup, and I suppose I didn't go out looking for it but rather a friendship turned into something else. I still don't feel badly for pursuing something so soon after. It was a way of helping me define who I was, post the long relationship.

If I were on the other side, however, I'd feel completely betrayed. It's never good. *hugs*