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[dancinstar107]

So Dan and Lindsay have made me reconsider my engagement. Why did they have to ask me if it makes me happy? Does that mean they just assumed it wouldn't? And I can't lie, it doesn't really make me happy, but its a way out....of what I don't know. Out of being alone forever? Who knows? I just don't want to lose two of my best friends over this. And

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[aura_state]

Your therapist said your engagement was self destructive or telling Dan?

...lots of people marry to get out, out of whatever. I'm not convinced that there's a specific "soulmate" or "perfect" person that one is destined to be with. If you care about eachother and can survive living, supporting and respecting eachother, then what's the problem?

[dancinstar107]

The engagement

[dancinstar107]

Beautiful....oh how i wish.

[lifes_a_dream]

I know that it must be hard to leave an abusive relationship. It's very easy for other people to say "well duh, just leave!" but in reality it's not as simple as that. Just don't kid yourself that being engaged or married will change things. All it will mean is that it would be even harder for you to get away from him if the abuse continues. If it makes you happy, then go for it - but it's not really making you happy at all, is it?

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[dancinstar107]

No...but I already said yes. I feel stuck.