Stop trying to analyze what your friendships will be like this Summer. None of mine have changed at all because we don't try to nitpick every little detail and create a fog of uncertainty of where we stand with each other. Just let things be.
I don't think I contradict you in everything you say, I just challenge you and your way of thinking because a lot of the time, I view things differently than you and try to show you that alternate path of thought.
You shouldn't even need to think about what will happen. If your friendships are true then nothing will allow those relationships to waiver. Last Summer was one of the funnest Summers I've had with my friends, and we're all as close as we ever were because we don't sit around and try to think of how we're going to be around each other, we just let our relationships with each other run their natural course.
By over-thinking your friendships and prematurely stating that your relationships with each other won't be the same, well, you're playing with fire and it seems as if you're asking to grow apart. I know that's not what you meant, but that's what the aura around that final paragraph of this entry appears to be.
even though none of ur friendships have changed, its not universal for every other group of people. i def agree that our group dynamic will be different, i think that everyone in our group of friends went through dramtic changes but thats expected because hey its us and we are filled with fucking drama lol. i mean i dont think change is a bad thing thou, its def needed at moments. and who know what the summer will bring lets just hope we make it through in one piece
not challenging anybody here. but to be perfectly honest, i just don't understand why anyone would analyze so much your speculation of how our relationships might change this summer. i guess i just say, let it be. but who knows, maybe i have a distorted view of this all. i dunno, guess that's just my opinion.
well to be honest i dont really think analyzing is a good word to use here...im not really analyzing anything...and in no point in this entry am i analyzing a relationship...im stating the obv pretty much...there are new people and new views in all of our lives that are prob going to change some things a little bit...do u deny that?...im only saying that i was wrong about thinking this summer would be the same and "we will see what happens"....and i was saying what i have already done in the past 3 days...which is not analysis at all....so maybe im missing something here?
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and maybe plymouth will surprise us lol...doubt it thou
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am i not allowed to think? jesus...i said we'll see what happens
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You shouldn't even need to think about what will happen. If your friendships are true then nothing will allow those relationships to waiver. Last Summer was one of the funnest Summers I've had with my friends, and we're all as close as we ever were because we don't sit around and try to think of how we're going to be around each other, we just let our relationships with each other run their natural course.
By over-thinking your friendships and prematurely stating that your relationships with each other won't be the same, well, you're playing with fire and it seems as if you're asking to grow apart. I know that's not what you meant, but that's what the aura around that final paragraph of this entry appears to be.
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and who know what the summer will bring lets just hope we make it through in one piece
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