Hi all,

I've started a Myspace acct so I think I'm going to be blogging there instead. Coming to this account just sort of depresses me but I'll still update it once in a while I think. For anyone who cares, the myspace is at http://www.myspace.com/22941735

Yeah, Saturday was a month and it was really hard. I don't even know how I would have got through this month (or how I'll continue to get through) without some of you and just wanted to say thank you ( Read more... )

Happy birthday baby

I will never stop being amazed at the cruelty and callousness of some people. Among the support and kindness, there's been a few assholes and it's shocking. Yesterday there was a particularly bad one and you know, at first I was livid and hurt -- and still am a bit. But one thing Lexy's passing has taught me is the little things like this don't ( Read more... )

Mike (qMike/ sleepyaardvard / whatever other screen names he has) wrote a note in one of his yahoo groups that was touching. I thought I'd put the link up here.

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/agnosticscorner/message/8064

it occurred to me when i was showing someone where the obit was, some of you only know lex by lex... not her full name. Look for Rebecca Alexis, not Lexy.

I was reading Lexy's journal and came across this that she wrote a long while ago ( Read more... )

the memorial service was today. it was nice, as for as those go because ( Read more... )

Ok, so the site's been updated. Lexy's obituary, can be found here: http://obits.venturacountystar.com/

:(

Oh shit -- my bad. It did run today. For people in the area, it's on page B7, at least in the Oxnard edition (the paper prints 6 different editions). It's down on the lower left hand corner of that page and runs to the top of the next page. I had only looked online, not in the paper. Lex's cousin called after I'd told her I hadn't seen it and she ( Read more... )