there are things we can control and things we cannot. the things we cannot control in our lives just simply sucks. its very unfortunate but hey what can you do? all you can really do is make the best of it and try to move on. the things we can control should be easy for us. all we have to do is make the right choices to accomodate our well- ( Read more... )

there's a saying that "admitting that you have a problem is the first step in dealing with it." so i have this tendency to overanalyze things based on how i feel. simply put: if i feel like shit i feel useless. so thats what i was going through last week feeling like i wasnt exactly up to par in life. so i took some time on my own to figure it ( Read more... )

entertainers are known for their style and grace when it comes to their performances. their fans are the observers who will keep "coming back for more" if they like the performance. however, once the act gets "old" or perhaps "stale", most fans won't come back. sometimes i feel like an entertainer as well ( Read more... )

the beatles once sang a song that had the phrase "life goes on." how amazing that 3 simple words can be so effective to millions of people. without even hearing the entire song, the phrase itself can just define what life is ( Read more... )

the saying goes "to really know a person, you must walk a mile in his or her shoes." all my life ive witness people judging each other, hell ive judge people too. the only difference now is that before i jump the gun in judging people i try to understand why they might act a certain way. this way i wont say something ill might end up regretting ( Read more... )

there are things in life that are within reach, while some are far fetched. there are also things that we can control in our lives, while there are some things that we cannot. the things we control are our choices in life. what we dont control is the fate it leads us to. from there, we react based on whether the fate is good or bad ( Read more... )

regardless of the situation, good or bad, it happens for a reason. the result of the situation can lead to optimistic behavior, if its good or even pessimistic if its bad. the phrase "things happen for a reason" is mainly used to help people think positive of the situation especially if it's bad. negativity just really brings people down and we ( Read more... )

i havent done a livejournal for the longest time! so why now you say? well, i guess it's just these thoughts running in my head. ive been told that sometimes it's good to write your thoughts on paper and then read it and reflect on them. so basically, this is just a way for me to reflect my thoughts electronically ( Read more... )