Comments | daphyn: So who the hell is this Daphyn person anyways?

daphyn

So who the hell is this Daphyn person anyways?

Nov 05, 2010 15:58

I am an adult. I don't always like it, but it remains true nonetheless ( Read more... )

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the_questess November 6 2010, 05:52:30 UTC

I like this post. :-)

daphyn November 6 2010, 15:16:22 UTC

Me too! :) There is a follow-up post in progress, too.

mihyam November 6 2010, 07:53:54 UTC

*also clicks the 'like' button* And... thank you for the coffee, by the way, if I didn't thank you earlier! <3 I'm proud of my sisser and her revelations!

daphyn November 6 2010, 15:18:15 UTC

You're welcome for the coffee :) I'm glad to have you as my friend as well as my sister.

ruhaniyyih November 6 2010, 15:05:01 UTC

I found myself smiling when you wrote that you don't like to be told what you want or that you don't want something... I take some credit for that one because I tried hard to allow you to want everything you wanted, even if you couldn't have it.

Just like Miriam, I am proud of you (and your revelations). I enjoy the woman you are, and watching you become her.

daphyn November 6 2010, 15:15:12 UTC

Thank you for that then :) It drives me bonkers when people say "Oh, you don't want that!" Makes me want to blow up at them a little and say "No, YOU don't want me to want that because you don't think you'd want it in my situation but until you are actually inside my head following my thought processes, don't presume to tell me what I want."

(It happens a lot - goes right along a lot of the time with people thinking I'm Less Than. I do my best to weigh all my options and possibilities before I make a decision and if I want help I ask for it. /rant

I love you and I am grateful for you.