I have a question for you all. (PLEASE RESPOND)

[melaniejaye]

Whats everyones thoughts about a femal@e proposing to her s/o?

Edit: this is a male female relationship in which the male would usually propose to the female. The female is the one who would like to propose.

Now however if the LGBT community is in here, when you plan on getting married how do you choose who will propose? I would assume it would be

Comments

[scien]

I'm a woman in a relationship with a woman, luckily neither of us want to get married. I think ultimately it comes down to the couple's preferences. It's something you can discuss, so you both know how the other feels - e.g. I do/do not want to get engaged soon, I would/would not want to be proposed to or do the proposing, and so on. Then you can act accordingly

[_whatnext]

I say no. But mostly that's because my real-life experiences with the situation have all been women trying to press marriage with a man that wasn't interested.

*Usually* in my circle, it's the woman that's ready first, and the man proposes when he's ready too. All's well. If the situation were reversed, sure, but I don't have any real life examples of that to draw from. I probably wouldn't do it myself.