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daughterofeve

Sept. 1st -- Oct. 23rd

Oct 23, 2002 08:09

I wish today didn't exist. Maybe if there was no such thing as October 23rd, She would still be here. *sighs* But strangely enough, there are a lot of anniversaries today. One of my best friends got her LJ this day, last year ... another one of my best friend's sister's birthday is today. *shakes head* I don't know what to think. But I still hate ( Read more... )

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disneyclint October 23 2002, 08:44:40 UTC

*HUG*

rachel2205 October 23 2002, 10:00:00 UTC

I know it must be terrible, even though I also know I don't really know how it feels. Remember what a lovely, beautiful person you are, Aletheia my dear, and how you deserve good things. Of course you miss her, as you are a caring and good person, but know that you are strong enough to survive too.

*giant hug* meandmywatson October 23 2002, 15:14:27 UTC

No matter whatever happens, you'll always be wise and strong enough inside to overcome anything because you're such a rare and precious person in the overall pattern of the world. Remember that there is always something out there that will need you.

altairis October 23 2002, 17:08:44 UTC

The pain of losing someone you care about... I know the feeling well, it tears at the very soul. Bring blackness to where there was once light... But looking back on the good times that you experienced with this person, remembering who they were and realizing how really precious those memories that you were able to have with them really are is really important to the process of letting go of the pain. Letting go of the suffering that death causes does not mean forgetting the ones we love... It means we keep them in our hearts always, where we will never forget the great people that they were and it means we will also have them with us always. Where ever the dead are, if they really loved you they would want for you to move on. Letting go of the pain is not easy, it took me several years myself and i think of myself as a strong person but its possible. Talking about it also helps, if you wish i will listen i know pain way to well and it helps me every time im able to help someone else move on. I must get going, i am usually not online ( ... )

bhoward October 23 2002, 22:51:06 UTC

I cannot think of any great words of wisdom or shining truths, which would comfort you in this hour. Just know this: I prayed for you this day, for several hours all told. You helped me up, Aletheia, when the worst had happened within my own life.

Should you ever wish to talk… about anything, you have but to ask, and I’ll be there.

You’re the most special person I could ever have imagined meeting. We’re your friends; you have us, Aletheia, and we love you very much.

Be safe. Be strong. Take the very *best* of care.