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[deannebott]

I am a rubbish girlfriend, demanding that Alistair decides when he's coming to see me so I have something to look forward to - how incredibly selfish. I get so wrapped up in planning our next time together and at the moment that's not what it's about. He has so much more important stuff to be doing, namely his dissertation, that i need to just give

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[salinkina]

Well, three years is a VERY long time to be apart. I know my brother and his girlfriend, who lived apart for one year, said they would never ever do it again because they found it so hard and it was making them so miserable.

But it's nearly over ... :)

[piskie_dust]

sweetie, you are NOT a rubbish girlfriend. you are behaving like any girlfriend would in that situation. If AListrair can't make it next week, then thats literally only one week. you'll see him for sure the week after, and in 11 weeks (which will FLY by, by the way!) you will be with him again forever. no need to be apart then. :)

His uni work is important, his diss i guess must be the same intensity as you when you're on production. You can't just walk away from it for a week i guess. But anyways, dont go beating yourself up about it and reading into it too much.

you are both in love, you are both strong and you've both got a future together. You just have to finish your final years of uni and you can relish in your love :)