It pains me to say it, but from what's presented here it sounds like this person is using you like a security blanket--they think that no matter how poorly they treat you, you'll never leave their side because they know how much they mean to you. (I'm...dealing with a situation like that myself.) I think it may be time to start matching their energy--if you're not their first option, they shouldn't be your first option anymore (save that for those who actually care) although I do also know from experience that's a LOT easier said than done.
I’m so, so deeply sorry you are going through a similar situation (also I’m sorry for the late reply). I’m trying to take the advice, but it hurts because without him I’m all alone, and it’s difficult to stop being like this and meeting new people, but I know it’s for the better. I wish you the best of lucks. If you need to get it out your chest, I’ll be here! <3
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It pains me to say it, but from what's presented here it sounds like this person is using you like a security blanket--they think that no matter how poorly they treat you, you'll never leave their side because they know how much they mean to you. (I'm...dealing with a situation like that myself.) I think it may be time to start matching their energy--if you're not their first option, they shouldn't be your first option anymore (save that for those who actually care) although I do also know from experience that's a LOT easier said than done.
Wishing you healing and better friends <3
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I wish you the best of lucks. If you need to get it out your chest, I’ll be here! <3
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