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[demonic_janey]

Every week I get an e-mail from some one I’ve met that goes along the lines of “do you hate me, what did I do wrong?”. The answer is never yes. Some people I know take my silence too personally. I go for long periods of time without seeing lots of people not because I don’t want their company or because I don’t want to talk to them, it happens

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[greenforest_elf]

*hugs u*

it shits me when friends get all cut when I vanish for a while, its not like I dont love them any less but sometimes I just need to hide out for a while.

I figure ppl who dont get that dont get me and if thats a reason not to stay friends with me thats no my issue :)

I think I have a fair few male friends for the same reason, I am not the clingy attached OMG u have to spend time with MEEEEEEE type of gal LOL

awww its hard when you grow fond of a girl, they seem to invade your every thought dont they!!!!!

*elfy luffs and snugggles*

[cthulhubitch]

Unisfa provokes love

Where's your terracon summary post, missy! *waggles finger*

[discover_sarah]

ur quite a character arent u babe???
i think ur unique...and for that, do not change who you are...only true friends will be there for u..
hey, u still owe me cuddles and crappy movies...
LOL

[demonic_janey]

i know!!!

yay for crappy movies!

I rented mean girls the other day and was thinking 'lol I need to watch this with some particular people'.

my video store does noyt have lost and delirous OR LOVING ANNABELLE!!!

[discover_sarah]

I have LOVING ANNABELLE....OH MAN..that movie is hot coz she's hot..no, no..dont think i can watch that movie with u..i mite wanna jump u if we watch ot together..LOL

[demonic_janey]

LOL

I found it again at the vid store last night.

I splooged a little

[v01d3d]

Take off your left shoe

[demonic_janey]

I've been kidnapped by a cupcake

LOL

[splintax]

I'm going to assume that I'm one of these people you're "sick and tired of". I'm a little hesitant to post stuff like this in a public comment, but I really hate bringing up "stuff that happened on the internet" in private conversations, so here goes:

I don't like this saying, but it's true: "friendship is a two-way street". It's not fair to become friends with somebody and then suddenly just decide to stop seeing them because you 'don't feel like it'. It doesn't matter if that's just 'the way you are', and you can't change it; if you do that, then people ARE going to take it personally, and people ARE going to get really upset. That's just the way /everyone else/ is.

If you really do feel like you need to distance yourself from everyone like that, then I'm sorry, that sounds really shit, and I wouldn't wish that upon anyone -- but when you do distance yourself from people, they're going to get upset and eventually distance themselves from you, and you can't blame that on them.

[demonic_janey]

yes, it is a two way street.
But when ever I see you, you seem wounded by something I've done, perhaps because I have done nothing to come and see you, you are hurt by that. Now though I ask you to give me one good reason why I should try and see someone who in my opinion acts cold, like giving me a hug is something you have to or should do, rather than want to do.

When was the last time you looked me in the eye and gave me an honest smile?

Something you once said to me that actually hurt but helped me was
"I miss you"
.

[splintax]

No, I'm hurt by the fact that one day things just seemed to go from us being basically best friends, and seeing each other every day, to you not returning my phone calls or messages and basically ignoring me and every attempt I made to see you