Double standards are for the birds...
Today, like many other days, I was subjected to the atrocity of the many difficulties that come about when you try to end a relationship
Sadly, one of the very last things that I would have thought that would have come into play. Double standards. *sigh* Many people have no idea how irritating this can be, but most women, have some form of a clue. Last year, whilst going through the same motions my loving badgerman&pixiefae offered up a piece of their home, if I were up to the complete change of life from one country to another.
I was more than up to it, but the constraints of trying to move myself and my daughter were just too much too bare as her father didn’t want her taken away. Now here we are many months later, and things are still the same, and what comes out of his mouth today…he wants to move out of town since things aren’t going to be patched up between us. ?!?!?! Now granted, moving to another state versus another country is not comparable by any means, but moving to another state was also an option for me at which he also balked. So why now…WTF..we can’t leave him, but he can leave us? I’m so sick of this bulls***, I’m pretty much damned if I do, damned if I don’t.
Sadly, one of the very last things that I would have thought that would have come into play. Double standards. *sigh* Many people have no idea how irritating this can be, but most women, have some form of a clue. Last year, whilst going through the same motions my loving badgerman&pixiefae offered up a piece of their home, if I were up to the complete change of life from one country to another.
I was more than up to it, but the constraints of trying to move myself and my daughter were just too much too bare as her father didn’t want her taken away. Now here we are many months later, and things are still the same, and what comes out of his mouth today…he wants to move out of town since things aren’t going to be patched up between us. ?!?!?! Now granted, moving to another state versus another country is not comparable by any means, but moving to another state was also an option for me at which he also balked. So why now…WTF..we can’t leave him, but he can leave us? I’m so sick of this bulls***, I’m pretty much damned if I do, damned if I don’t.