i need some dating advice people!!!

[dirtystina]

yea. so. i am feeling extremely attention starved right now. i like this boyyy, and he likes meee, but things are complicated. and when things get complicated it usually involves me doing dumb things. like, kissing another boy (who is not the boy i like, but), who i am really good friends with and hoping that he doesnt try and pursue anything

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[too_much_beauty]

we are one in the same my friend. one. in. the. same.
once things start taking a turn in the direction that i want it to go i usually screw it up by kissing/messing around with someone else..because i suck.

and i tell people i like them waaaaay too soon. and get them good and scared that i'm a crazy.

haha, what do we do?

i think we just be our usual nerdy, ungraceful, uncool selves. someone is looking for us.

[dirtystina]

that is what i always thought!? i think that i am totally plain-jane when it comes to dating, but i figure if a guy likes me then he will show interest in my dumb stories and my pictures and he will not expect me to be dry-humping him or even kissing him the first day that we meet!

thats why i always end up with friends. i have to be friends first. oh, the confusion!?!

*note to self* dont go out with sexified friends when looking for guys, they will indeed call you out on your prudishness.

[dirtystina]

yeah, it totally hurt my feelings when she said it. cos i felt like she was trying to give me advice, but that is definitely not a way to help a person. crystal said she made it sound like she was sympathizing for the guy, like "oh, you should have made-out with him for putting him through that". ugh. i dont understand peoples "friend-tactics" sometimes?

[stars_n_myeyes]

First, You seem to have a problem keeping this particular boy friend, as simply that, think of the track record? You need to lay down the law with this kid if thats the way you want it to stay, just as being friends? hes sneaky i think! haha. Two, wow! whoever said that def won the bitch of the night award, maybe even the month. I do remember learning a simple rule of thumb when I was just a wee-child, it was mentioned by a rabbit, skunk, or deer I do believe, and it went something like this "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all!"

p.s. I love you!

[dirtystina]

i think it was thumper from bambi, and um yeah, i agree! "do unto others as you would have others do unto you" and...yeah, i guess my feelings are less hurt now that im realizing, its less im the loser and more she was being a bitch.

love you too seeesterrr!<3