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[djlavey]

So my nerves are officially shot. The fucking neighbors below us were blasting the backstreet boys or whatever again. I went down and banged on the door so hard one of the little white-trash bitches actually screamed. Carrie heard it all through the concrete floor

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[shelteredcanuck]

Which security company are you having to deal with?

[djlavey]

Intelligarde

[heraldofchaos]

definatly phone the police next time, though you migh twant to bone up on the noise violation laws first. (otherwise you might be still stuck with the security guys i know you can get away with alot before 10pm and after 9am (or aleast you use to)Look at me use multiple brakets all math styles lol)))

other thanm that i totaly would recomend coffee with me some time this week to just shoot the shit and hang out no stress wise, followed by possably buying yourself a kite and comeing flying with me one the weather clears thru spring ;P that or im going to have to teach you the secret of the big blue room.

you can do this, its not as hard as it seems, i know that when you feel at the end of your rope it seems like the end of it all.

good to see you trying, dont let an early SNAFU mess with it. keep trying and it will work.

coffee? im free most of this week.

[djlavey]

I'm doing a brian wilson routine this week - then off to courtice on for messiah-on-a-stick weekend.

[beithgrove]

(((hugs)))

It's hell. I *so* hear you, but it WILL get better. Cycles, remember, it's all about the cycles. You'll learn a tonne from getting through this agony, then you get the prize/bliss/whatever, then you do it again, deeper and harder than before. Technically this is a good thing (I know you're not on the stagnant coast wagon either) it's just not an *easy* road, and it sure as fuck doesn't help to watch other people bopping along oblivious and chipper. Rest is nice sometimes too. Take it when you can, and don't ruin it by trying to make it something is ain't... that's a different step.

[djlavey]

"dont ruin it by making it something it aint"

please explain

[beithgrove]

Pro'ly more my challenge than yours. I don't "rest" well. I get distracted, frustrated, not so good with the sitting still long enough to *actually* recharge. Your frustrations are all pretty genuine, but try to find some way, some place, you can rest. (Where there aren't any loud girls to "cunt" it up...) Don't tie yourself in knots about your work either, and what your next step is *while* you're trying to recharge, all those choices (and calls to the cops?!) will still be there for you AFTER you've cleared your head a bit and feel a little better about the world, y'know?

(Truth is I was also thinking about some of your other recent posts/comments while I wrote this, so it doesn't necessarily speak directly about the bi-atch problem...)

[valgarth]

Do call the cops next time. It's unlikely that the security guys would advise you to do that unless they're looking for an excuse to use documented reports of these young ladies' bad tenancy against them. If you've called the security guys whenever these women's noise bugs you and every other neighbour around them has done it too, the security guys are sick of them and want them out. Guaranteed.

If, after you've called the cops once or tice and the other neighbours have too, the women fail to get the message and keep turning up the noise, they can be evicted relatively easily because they will have a string of complaints against them a mile long. It's not like at that poiont they can just go "Oooops. We're sorry." and pay the back rent to make the notice go away either. The best they can do is go to a hearing at which the reports will be brought to bear against them and the best argument they're likely to be able to muster will be "Ummmmmm... We're stupid?"

[djlavey]

Ha ha. Yeah... stupid. Ha ha.

I like that.

[valgarth]

*bows*

I'm pleased to bring the chuckling.

[stevetassie]

Call the cops.
Speaking as someone who lived through the Hell of Unbelievably Loud Neighbours, official channels are the way to go.

[djlavey]

good advice. Imma take it.