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Aug 23, 2005 07:52

out of paranoia but mostly curiosity, i have a question ( Read more... )

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emo_kid August 23 2005, 13:23:24 UTC

"or did you simply settle for your safe bet? someone you certainly love and care for, but not the brightest, most attractive, best in bed, or most successful thing you've ever laid eyes on?"

i broke up with that one this january after a year and a half plus. lived together and evertything.

doitforthekids August 23 2005, 16:58:44 UTC

did you realize you'd settled and didn't want it, or was it for other reasons?

emo_kid August 23 2005, 17:24:58 UTC

i was perfectly fine...and the reason we broke up was different completely.

looooooooooooooooooooooooong story.

coinlaundrylosr August 23 2005, 15:52:05 UTC

holy shit.. i know what you're talking about.. with the panic attacks and what not... i keep having those with the person i'm with and the same ideas...

doitforthekids August 23 2005, 16:59:50 UTC

yeah it sucks to have moved 8 hours up here and be like 'HOLY SHIT what if he realizes i'm really not that awesome?'

because you know, he's going to live across the hall from me in a matter of days.

coinlaundrylosr August 23 2005, 17:01:36 UTC

are you in an apartment?

doitforthekids August 23 2005, 17:12:36 UTC

big house. 5 bedrooms. 4 housemates including him.

mmmmotzerella August 24 2005, 00:39:42 UTC

everyone has those feelings.. everyone worries too much in general. just let go of your ego and go with the flow. unconditional love is always the answer. don't be afraid to make mistakes, because that's how you learn who you are and why you're here. aren't i full of it? yes, but i've found and so have many experts that these things are true. go to near-death.com it always makes me happy and not worry about the things that are small that i think are big.

p.s. i love the shoes! and the sweater, can't wait until it gets cold. and i'm sorry i never called after i left your going away get together. aaaand remember, if you're happy then you are increasing the overall happiness of the universe and making it a better place, just by doing that. isn't that cool and cheesy all at once? well, i think it's awesome, but i know a lot of people just think it's cheese. anyway...'don't worry. be happy.'

... turncold August 26 2005, 20:06:35 UTC

the thing about being in love is that your idea of perfection is turned all about. sure, you may find yourself with thoughts of "wow that person is cute," "wow that person is so intelligent and perfect," but your mate is insantly infinitely better than said person simply for the fact that you're in love. it's never settling if it's love.