I have no idea what the answers to your series of questions above are, though I'd speculate from your writings that you're smart and funny, and from your photos that you're pretty.
It can be a long road to contentment. I'm happy with my relationship now, and I can hardly believe what I used to think "happy" meant -- how little I settled for. Your journal over time has made me think there has been a fair amount of drama in your relationship, as well. I had a failed marriage in there, too, and an awful lot of stress in my life, and I didn't even realize my life was hard until it became easy.
You may have to change, or you may have to change the kinds of partners you're trying to be with, or both. But it's probably too early for that problem. Right now, lean on your friends. There's plenty of time to get it right. But take some time now before you even start thinking about the hard stuff. People don't do their best thinking when they're hurting (hence all the cliches about people on the rebound).
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It can be a long road to contentment. I'm happy with my relationship now, and I can hardly believe what I used to think "happy" meant -- how little I settled for. Your journal over time has made me think there has been a fair amount of drama in your relationship, as well. I had a failed marriage in there, too, and an awful lot of stress in my life, and I didn't even realize my life was hard until it became easy.
You may have to change, or you may have to change the kinds of partners you're trying to be with, or both. But it's probably too early for that problem. Right now, lean on your friends. There's plenty of time to get it right. But take some time now before you even start thinking about the hard stuff. People don't do their best thinking when they're hurting (hence all the cliches about people on the rebound).
Good luck.
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Thanks for listening. :)
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