Hello Dori...what a comeback! It reads like a novel but it's real life!! Weird...How do you manage now with a child on your own? How about the contact with the rest of his family? How did they react? In any case it sounds like it's better that things came to an end instead of going on like this...and you even left it to him to decide, and obviously he's made his decision. How often does he get to see Mila now and in the future?
His family's rather nice to me, obviously everything can change if he meets someone else and i.e. gets them pregnant.
It was his decision and he made it. His da calls him a cunt because of this and he doesn't talk to him at all.
He asked to have Mila over on every 2nd week, as in entire week, but I wouldn't let him. I'm not gonna play pass the parcel with my own child. He gets her on every 2nd weekend, however it happens that she ends up with his parents instead.
Indeed, what a comeback. To be sincere, I would sooner expect pregnancy news than this. I'm blown away, and really sorry to hear about what you've been going through. You seemed to have endured this for quite a while.
The most important in the end is to hear that you are happier now.
I feel sorry that we live so far apart, and I cannot just drop by with a bottle of *insert alcohol of your choice* for a proper heart-to-heart.
Mila is coping fine. I think, in a longer run, its actually better for her this way. nobody's shouting at her in the morning that shes not ready yet and nobody's shouting at her in the evening, that she's not in her bed. He spends more time with her this way, as usually it would be his phone that got most of his attention.
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His family's rather nice to me, obviously everything can change if he meets someone else and i.e. gets them pregnant.
It was his decision and he made it. His da calls him a cunt because of this and he doesn't talk to him at all.
He asked to have Mila over on every 2nd week, as in entire week, but I wouldn't let him. I'm not gonna play pass the parcel with my own child. He gets her on every 2nd weekend, however it happens that she ends up with his parents instead.
I have to say I'm happier since he's been gone.
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The most important in the end is to hear that you are happier now.
I feel sorry that we live so far apart, and I cannot just drop by with a bottle of *insert alcohol of your choice* for a proper heart-to-heart.
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Ah well... Surprise!
You're always welcome to come over :)
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Ps. So yes I still read LJ, buy haven't made any updates myself in years.
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Mila is coping fine. I think, in a longer run, its actually better for her this way. nobody's shouting at her in the morning that shes not ready yet and nobody's shouting at her in the evening, that she's not in her bed. He spends more time with her this way, as usually it would be his phone that got most of his attention.
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