So... i dont know if anyone still reads my LJ when i write on it or what but I've got a question for any1 who reads this( girls plz answer from your prospective too
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I think you just asked all the questions everyone else wonders, but can never answer. Anyone who's going to answer them will have different answers. I don't believe in dating your best friends. It's just too messy after the break up. But for me, no relationship starts off with love. I just go with it and see where it leads. And for the whole when do you know when you are in love... Well, can't say. I only loved 3 people in my life. With Peter it took me 6 months to figured it out. With my baby, Jesse, a few months. And with my boyfriend... Well, less then a month. I just realized that there is no way I can live with him and miss him while I'm school without loving him. I've been living with him for a while now and we are not tired of each other. And of course, relationships have to be fun. You have to do something not to get bored of each other
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I thought you'd like to read a novel!
anonymous
March 7 2006, 04:25:34 UTC
A perfect girlfriend ... I think a perfect girlfriend knows when talk and comfort or when to just give a hug and say nothing or even when to just stand back and let you blow off some steam. I think she wants you to be happy, just because your smile means the world to her. I've always agreed that food is one way to a man's heart. I think cooking or baking him something is always a sweet gesture. Making him his favorite foods and going out of your way to give them to him, maybe just to brighten a bad day, is golden. To make him happy and enjoy his happiness so much, makes love amazing. When happiness and smiles are contagious, everything in life is better. To know when you're love is a pretty crazy moment if you ask me. In my experience it's an instantaneous realization at a random moment in time, when you're together somewhere and suddenly the world around you goes fuzzy and you can't stop looking at that person, and all you want to do is fall into that person's arms and stay there forever. (I know it's totally cliche, but I swear that
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In a convo with holly...dragonflamexcxMarch 7 2006, 04:34:36 UTC
Holly: well, like i don't believe there is a "perfect type of girl" for any one guy. Holly: i think it's just a certain person is attractive to somebody at that time. Chris: so what do u think of love? Holly: i think there is love. Holly: you just have to find him or her. Holly: it may be right in front of your face. Holly: you may find it when you're 77 Chris: what about friends with ben. or friends that date? Holly: if they're searching, let them do it. but if they're "lusting" or in lust, i don't frown upon it, but there really is no sentimental values? like its just like a cover or something , i duno. kinda like a blanket over the lazy person who's just too cold to go searching for the heat Holly: i duno, bad metaphore. Chris: actually i really like that one Holly: thanks:-)
Hello, just a random person who has somehow stumbled upon your journal. I found your questions intruiging to say the least. I'd just like to say that through my experiences that, after everything is done, none of your questions really matter. You just know. Your thinking too much and want answeres for things that can only be understood through experience. Once you understand them, they don't matter, because thats the way things work out. Hope it helps. Chris.
Nobody is perfect! That is the only truth. But, a "perfect girlfriend" is a whole package! In the way you like it. There is just some things you like. you have fun together. Girlfriend or boyfriend is almost like a friend, but there is something more than just a friendship, too. There is a passion, love, trust etc. And love lasts 4ever. If your relationship doesnt work out, it isnt love. Its just fancy! Or something. And you will always love your truly friends, but in different kind than your lovers.
hahahhaaa sorry if i cant write english good, im very bad in it. english isnt my own language.
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Holly: i think it's just a certain person is attractive to somebody at that time.
Chris: so what do u think of love?
Holly: i think there is love.
Holly: you just have to find him or her.
Holly: it may be right in front of your face.
Holly: you may find it when you're 77
Chris: what about friends with ben. or friends that date?
Holly: if they're searching, let them do it. but if they're "lusting" or in lust, i don't frown upon it, but there really is no sentimental values? like its just like a cover or something , i duno. kinda like a blanket over the lazy person who's just too cold to go searching for the heat
Holly: i duno, bad metaphore.
Chris: actually i really like that one
Holly: thanks:-)
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Hope it helps.
Chris.
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But, a "perfect girlfriend" is a whole package! In the way you like it. There is just some things you like. you have fun together. Girlfriend or boyfriend is almost like a friend, but there is something more than just a friendship, too. There is a passion, love, trust etc. And love lasts 4ever. If your relationship doesnt work out, it isnt love. Its just fancy! Or something. And you will always love your truly friends, but in different kind than your lovers.
hahahhaaa sorry if i cant write english good, im very bad in it. english isnt my own language.
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