This happen. With that said, I'll also add that no one can know for sure when they'll happen, and for that matter, no one knows why they happen.
How things work themselves out is only a matter of people. There is no divine intervention, there is no hand of fate at work here...it's all just a matter of time.
I'm not going back to Millikin this semester. Probably won't go back ever. Taking classes at ECC, hopefully going to get an Associates soon, what with the Millikin credits.